So... this site introduced me to threesomes, and after some experiences on here, I’ve been able get more of an idea of the things I like and don’t like to do with couples. A couple of months ago, the last time I played with a couple, I discovered that I was a mite uncomfortable about having sex with the Mr of the couple while Mrs simply watched.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’ve got nothing against having sex with other women’s hubbies, but I’d much rather it be during the tangle of bodies, with her below me, above me, behind him, beside us, you name it! I also have no issues with him watching while we two girls explore one another. It was only her watching sans participation that didn’t sit quite right with me. It’s probably due to my number one rule that I never hit on another girl’s man…
In the time since, I’ve received emails from couples and we’ve exchanged PGs, we like the look of each other, and then they ask about my experiences so far and my likes and dislikes. At this time, I’ll state this one discomfort….and then…
*tumble weed*
This has happened with no less than FOUR couples.
Now I understand that pretty much all swinging couples enjoy the voyeuristic thrill of watching their hubby/partner with another woman. However I would have assumed that in the case of a couple with a bi-curious/bisexual woman seeking a single bisexual girl, they would be looking to concentrate more on the female play rather than the ‘watching my hot hubby bang a random girl’. I mean, if you’re a swinging couple, you can get those kicks from being with another couple.
So question…is it that much of a deal breaker?
From what some women have said before in the forums this sounds like it might have been a very cleverly disguised single guy posing as a couple
ET xox
and declined.
All in for us too.
Sure a little FF play to warm up is cool and very rarely (Mr is very particular) some MM play. But it's all just a lead up to the all in free-for-all ;)
It would be much the reverse. I would take a breather and sit back and watch or a while.
...And then ofcourse, there are the photography duties to be attended to.
...And at some stage, Jennylee would send me off to make her a cuppa.
...And eventually, I'd have to get up and shower to go to work.
...But all the while, Jen would still be hard at it.
...You know, Jennylee is going to be the death of me.
If the F part of the couple is straight and doesn't want to play with the single woman over for the threesome, she just needs to get her M to include her some other way if he and the visitor are enjoying intercourse. With some creative positioning F can receive oral sex/fingering/toys. She could kiss him passionately. She could lick the man's balls as they swing about. If he's an open minded man, F could give some kind of anal play to M. Even if the lady of the couple is just pleasuring herself, that's got to feel less awkward for the visitor than being a fly on the wall.
Alternatively, she could get the orange slices and Gatorade ready.