the best approach i had was when i chick came up after alot of eyeing each other off, a few winks and licking of the lips ... then she came up and just started kissing me in front of everyone even my boyfriend i still get off thinking about it mmmmmmm tinglies lol.
women are a liitle different to pick up then men there has to be an immediate attraction followed by knowing you swing that way and then maybe a couple drinks and touching i.e dancing is good grind up on each other. then hint if they want to come back to yours if she does then its pretty much ON!