Body language is like learning to speak another language. Some women like French, others like soft Italian musial sound. Others like the guttural tones of Russia. So to get through the tower of babble, watch the body language.
Asking while your in the mood, not asking for a shopping list before you have sex of what is it you like
I hate that question , what is it that turns you on, how do you like sex this is before you meet the guy.
How the hell would I know that till I see a guy.
Kiss baby kiss , hold that hair at the back of the neck, lean in almost kiss, snake your hand around to the small of the back.
Kiss and unlock the key to foreplay.
Undress a woman with your dexterous fingers and looks of appreciation. Make her feel your pulling tisue paper of that Xmas present you always wanted. Savour it, inhale her skin at the nape of the neck.
Trace a finger tip over a sweet puckering nipple.
Kiss the curve that swells from belly to hip bone.
Touch like you read Braille
I had a man like that not so long ago, and he never had sex with me, it was so delicious that sometimes I get wet while I am in isle six at the shopping if I think of that day. Makes me have that little smile and I cant help but touch my throat where his lips were.
Foreplay can last for weeks
Practice makes perfect and just adjust the forplay knob to suit the woman and the situation.
You hot little mamma you !!!
Phew....settle
Ah yeah...in answer to the OPs question
How do women want to be touched...???
Well we want to be touched ALOT and OFTEN
However it isnt textbook as TR said..every women is different and all will want be touched accordingly...and thats half the fun......go with the flow, observe her and listen to her and be open to any ideas or suggestions by her......and more importantly, remember this...it all comes down to the KISS....you get the KISS rite..trust me it will all flow perfectly from there..
by really looking at her....look into her eyes
touch her softly ,slowly
nuzzle that place just below her ear
kiss her there
and then brush your lips against hers
nibble the bottom lip and kiss her
kiss her lips,her eyes,her cheeks
all the while still stroking and touching her
leave her breathless,wanting more
run your fingers through her hair
gaze into her eyes again
what do you see?
what do you feel?
is she trembling?
does she want you?
unbutton her
disarm her
touch her skin
run your lips
your tongue over her body
now you have begunx Hugs H
Yes, what Tuscan and Hesione said... I WANT TO BE TOUCHED LIKE THAT!!!!
Yes to eye contact... not googly eyes, lingering sexy eyes.
Yes to touch, long body strokes from neck to nether... starting with wispy gentle almost aren't touching strokes.
Yes to running fingers through hair, once again starting gently and building until full on foreplay.
Yes to kissing, long lingering passionate slow sensual kissing, involving lip sucking/licking as well as intertwined tongues
YES to nipple play - fingers, tongues mmm
Just follow the cues... if she is moaning and breathing is becoming deeper and heavier, and her body is squirming and she is getting wet you are doing well.
PS. watch direct stimulation of the clitoris, alot of women find its a fine line between pleasure and pain when it comes to full on direct pressure, pubic bone thrusting into your face at full force is not always a good sign...
There are some hotties on here that can do all that ya know. You just have to let em.
Tonight a few extra minutes on the treadmill while watching eye candy, may burn of that frustration
hands MS Velvet a fan.
you need to do something about that sizzle :)
I love to be stroked....to begin with. The lightest of touches...just teasing my skin. Same with a kiss...the barest brush of lips..leaving me quivering and waiting for a deeper invasion. My vulva, enjoys the lightest of attention - stroke me there and I will purr like a kitten, and when going for the clitoris....softly, softly, build it up...you need to prime her and make her ready for a more vigorous onslaught. Everyone is different though of course but for me, a gradual and gentle build up just makes me melt in all the right places.
I will tell you of the day, with rain on a tin roof.
He came to the door, he had very blue eyes. I was surprised he was taller than I thought. A casual lean and limber body, walking with the ease of a cat. He was relaxed not a hint of being nervous, and me always in control, felt it slip a little.
I felt the heat in me, with his cool appraisal. I wanted to pass his visionary test.
We sat in the front room and then moved to sitting on the lounge. He was not rushed, it was me that wanted to go to the bedroom. He would not take the bait. I then knew I was the fish and he was the fisherman. He had patience of the old man and the sea.
In time we made it to the mattress on the floor. He kept his distance, me wanting his hands on me but not asking for fear I would beg.
Then he brushed a bit of hair from my face. He traced a calloused finger down my cheek, catching the side of my mouth. Then to my chin and my neck, a steel touch with the restraint of velvet gloves.
The flush of anticipation crept up my body like a lingering caresses on pale skin, the pulse in my throat, must have been so visible , a vampires dream.
Then started to kiss me, mouth running it along under my chin. He hand gripped my hair at the base of my neck. I tried to control the play, but I was way out of my league. He stroked down my arm, then lifted it over my head, capturing my other hand to pin them together.
He was strong, I was pliant.
Rolling me so I was on my back, hooking a jeans clad leg between mine to hold me still.
He was a seasoned man, weathered, from hard work.
He looked down at me, as I felt my breath catch he leaned down and took what he wanted.
He never undressed me, but I was naked. He never unzipped himself but I felt like he had already been in me a hundred times.
For hours he played with me, touching kissing stroking me, laying back and talking.
I was naked in my candour, perhaps that is his art of seduction to see what’s inside and brush aside the offering of tits and arse.
so ladies tell me of a lover from here that has been good for you
One day you will come accross someone who is just so horny that she just wants
your cock in her Now!!
Sometimes you just gotta do what your told...lol
Cheers Felonius
Pure gold FF.
Theres also a rumour flying about that headaches can be a damn bitch if your partner wants sex... Don't believe it, those feel good sex hormones really can work wonders!!!
Oh my, Mischevious and Sas, I'm in no fit state to answer these comments.
Hmmmm Rammsteins Volkerball and the Fooeys Hyde Park dvd's followed by some
Machine head and Slayer, washed down with half a bottle of Vodka and Half a bottle
of Wild turkey American honey, tommorrow .....lol
Oh yeah...all typo's courtesy of Vodka and Bourbon....if someone tells me there isn't a few I will be pissed off!! or it's a miracle cure for spelling and grammar...
Cheers ....FeloniuslyShit faced....and ....lovin it!!....this should be a national pastime!