I won't meet with anyone unless I have spoken to them on the phone and seen them on cam first and they see me on cam! These rules are not bent in any way at all anymore! I used to trust guys and who said they were on their profile pics...until I met a guy at a pub for a drink a couple of years ago and he wasn't even the guy in his pics...he didn't even fit the description that he wrote about himself! Another guy was so "vocal" in chat and on cam chat...but, when I met him he was so quiet...what Jerry Sienfeld would call "the close talker" I couldn't hear a bloody word he said.....I have spoken to guys on the phone and can tell straight away that it ain't going to happen, so I don't take the next step in meeting with them! I am here for sex...not for everlasting love...if the chemistry isn't there...it ain't going to happen!
xFunlovingx
There is no reason what so ever that you can not have your pics in your private gallery and exchange them privately. Many of us have careers that we dont want everyone knowing our private business. Most of us do not have our full facial pics up.....incase you havent noticed. There is no reason why you can not cam with couples like the others have said either.
No pic.... no meet.
THAT is the bottom line.
I would never go to meet someone without at least seeing a pic, real or not of them. What makes you think that anyone else is comfortable going to meet someone sight unseen? The other couple were not being rude at all. I think you were. You saw ther pics obviously, or you would not know they were attractive. They were looking to thier safety and rightly so.
Why should anyone trust you implicitly?
...which I would think would be slim, none or less than that if you are unwilling to keep a few pictures of what you look like in one of your private galleries. I have a series of very random head shots in one that don't utilize any of the the more artistic forms of the camera lens...and other less random head shots in the other. Those are definitely "VIP guests only" and I have frequently been told that those look better than the first. Oh well...always put your best foot forward.
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Think about it...anyone that sees your private pics here is on this site for the same reasons that you are and are not too likely to pop in on Monday morning and announce that they were cruising an adult "sex site" and saw you. If you do happen to be Julia Gillard, believe me...it won't hurt your political career and may just get you a few more votes. If you male counterpart happens to be Wayne Swan...you might get bored as between the two, you have managed to fuck nearly everyone in Australia so experiencing something new might be difficult.
Just as a side bar...due to a couple of business ventures, I speak publicly and frequently all over Australia to groups ranging from 20 or so to easily over 1000 attendees. I don't think I am famous at all...some would even say infamous, but have pics available and honestly I am hard pressed to wander through a crowded Chadstone on a Saturday or down Collihns Street on a Friday without recognizing or being recognized by someone. Same thing applies in other parts of the state but for much different reasons. Hell, I would almost welcome some good looking lady walking up out of the crowd saying "I saw your picture on RHP" ....what an ice breaker that would be!
Get over it...or get over yourself just a little unless the whole thing is a sham. Personally I would avoid camming via any open server P2P connection, but that is due largely to my understand of the internet environment. Good luck in your quest...I think you may need it.
we have encountered contact from the postee and we find its OK for them to constantly perv but not allow the casting of an eye.
I'm sure YOU wouldnt turn up for a blind date with looking so why should you expect others to do so.
And to carry on as if your the only ones that have high profile blah blah blah jobs etc only makes you sound elitetist which you arent. But we guess you must walk around with "SWINGERS" tattooed on your forehead to announce it to everyone
Well arent there some strong points of view...mostly intolerant of our decison not to post pics...which has not stopped our fun..by volume...over several years.
If you read carefully I didnt argue the right for people to...even..push for pics...just that they should not be rude and accept our way of operating and reject us politely. We agree that having pics in a private gallery is...more...controllable...but who are we sending them too and how will they use them?...do you guys really think they cant be hacked?...anyway...some of your grumpy responses are a fascinating look at you as people and we will always wish you well!
Everybody...stick to your guns...dont let other people push you into doing something you dont want to do...as for the comments so far...you mostly missed the point...but thats the point..isnt it?
Evy...x
Well...your obviously passionate about your point of view...so are we!!..As for sight unseen...we have been having a lot of fun over the years with our blind dates...nobody has run away yet,,,even though they can.
Have fun
Evy...
I agree with you...but when we said No...didnt mean they had to be rude...my point
Evy..
Your pompous arrogant response is noted...and in the toilet where it belongs.
Evy
