Guys who describe themselves as 'very attractive' are often average

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Guys who describe themselves as 'very attractive' are often average

Feb 22, 2012
Bathsheba   Woman 35yrs
And often not too smart. Is it the same with women's profiles?
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MrsTri   Woman 36yrs

Uh huh

Yep.

We all gotta talk ourselves up, and what some find attractive, others don't. That's why I appreciate profiles with pics. ;)
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MsVelvetblue  

Woman 47yrs

Guess you have to define what attractive is and we all have a different opinion on that

and thats why I say post a photo ..let me be the judge..preferably one circa 2011-2012.... but give me brains and humor over looks anytime...... and no guys cock shots arent attractive no matter what your ex told you !!!
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Stalky

Just a regular very attractive 50 year old.

I'm the same age as Johnny Depp. Of course I'm very attractive... goes without saying. Jeese. Hugs Stalky
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lil_bit_angelic   Woman 39yrs

Ego ...

Anyone who calls themselves very attractive is an automatic no no for me. They either are genuinely exceptionally attractive, in which case they're way out of my league, or they've grossly over-exaggerated their attractiveness, in which case they're delusional or unredeemably egotistical. Either way, not for me :)

I'm much more inclined to be brutally honest about me and what I have to offer. Saves any disappointment, I figure.
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The_Seeker   Man 37yrs

hmm

its hard to be honest when it come to describing oneself. I think that part of the profile shouldn't really be there.. mainly because everyone got a different taste on who is attractive and who isn't.

Not everyone would agree on the same thing!.. so yeah.. pointless ..


Cos everyone's attractive, to some people.

As for me.. Im not gorgeous, im average, but i like to think myself as attractive. Maybe its part of my confidence boost? perhaps thats why they put theirs like so? *Shrugs* who knows....

So yes. like others before me. Profile pics is the way to go...

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Handmaiden  

Woman 49yrs

Well

I have to but up average as there is just no box to tick for.....


Fucking Awesome and Super Smart   
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all2sweet2   Woman 39yrs

ummmm

i have to say if you ask any guy and he will always assume his above average , he could be going gray showing signs of huge wrinkles and a beer gut and think his a 22 year old stud and every female should fall at his feet.

God i wish i had their confidence!

Females sell them selves short cause we like to hear we are pretty beautiful smoking hot and we never believe a word the guy says.  Females have got to learn to love the way they look cause really most guys do think we are pretty beautiful smoking hot for something as simple as we smiled and say Hi.
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Mitch04   Man 22yrs

Goes Both Ways

If we don't find ourselves attractrive then who will??? This is just people trying to "sell" themselves, I wouldn't say I'm super attractive if were being honest, I mean I never have people when out trying to pick me up as apose to the other way round.

 

Same goes with women after FWB's do they really exist?

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Ramakin   Man 41yrs

Magnificent or Mediocre?

I've been emailing the RHP sys admins and asking if they would add "Magnificent" as one of the options for our profiles but they haven't replied yet. I'm begining to think the email system here just doesn't work.
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Quoting 'Handmaiden'
I have to but up average as there is just no box to tick for.....


Fucking Awesome and Super Smart   


Lol, that's awesome!

But really, I try not to judge people too harshly on how they describe their appearance. Personally, I find it difficult to honestly describe my appearance in my profile, because I'm aware of how subjective physical attraction is, and I'm sure many others do too. Some days I look in the mirror and think, "yes, I'm looking pretty good today", other days I look in the mirror and think "meh". I prefer to let profile pictures speak for themselves rather than a one-word description.

xx Stuck


On the other hand, what Handmaiden says:


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Stalky

Oh.... And

I'm the same height as Brad Pitt. He's very attractive, so this concludes my evidence. Hugs Stalky
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ChasingMidnight

Under promise...

...and over deliver.

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Too easy, a nice surprise instead of a rude shock. 

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My mother...she said I was really handsome and very intelligent.

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wowwow11   Man 39yrs

Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder

But  Fat is Fat  not average we are not in America
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looking2try3   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 36yrs

Oh my lord Chilli

Perhaps we were made from each other I was once described as looking like shrek to a small child ! Happy days !!!!!
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Princess come on over here my swamp awaits!!!!!
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Brae ....... all green and puddy for you Fiona!

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jensman1903   Man 48yrs

Not me!

As I'm a very humble and reserved man, I've described myself as attractive even though, in the flesh, I'm dazzling. 

 

....and All2sweet2 I'm a non-drinker so my gut has nothing to do with beer. 

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ChasingMidnight

...that colour, it scares me!

Women describe themselves quite differently too...and sometimes it's all in the colour of the brush they paint themselves with when trying to get your attention.

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There was a profile here for a while...it's gone, but still haunts my mind.  It was green...and it had big lips with even darker green bumps on them.  I am sure it could sing...

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...feed me, Seymour.

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Narregrlx   Woman 23yrs

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..

I'd pick you up 4 sure;) and I think your hot.. *blush* Infact, are you free this Saturday?
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Gone6weeksormore   Woman 37yrs

Some people need to take a good hard look at themselves - viagra added to their eyedrops

This forum made my day.  It's 3am, mind, so off to a funny start.  Some fine points mentioned above including women being worse on themselves.  I find myself comparing my looks to when I was 21, 30, 34 even and  although my face doesn't look 100% like a squashed sandshoe ( as mentioned above about how some of our male partners look ) my self esteem has failed to accept the differences when ageing although I pretty much have the body of a teenager. ( Buried in my backyard lol )

In saying that, I find men who are very attractive and put "Very Attractive" to be trying to whittle down their chances of snaring dates with Uber-Models, which if the ravings of some weak eye-sighted males I am, but there's no way I would consider seeing them as my low confidence would lead me to not orgasm through self-conciousness or wonder if he has a fetish for "ugly, average or almost a model" women by being with me.

And if they put "Very attractive" and they look like a dogs breakfast I'd ask if they're a comedian or were high when they filled-in their profile and secretly wonder if their nose will Pinocchio out to surpass their beer gut.
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MrandMrsErotic   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

Case Study

Obtaining a set group of random members and a control group of minimum50%  representative value should result the accurate data you're observing.
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MissBJ   Woman 41yrs

well...

I dont know how to describe myself...
so I just put "see my photo"
then others can decide for themselves.
Seems the easiest way.

BJ

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