Gaz,

The fantasy is wonderful but honestly, having casual sex with one unknown male is challenging enough, let alone two. 

I am still not sure if I would follow trhough on my fantasy but then again I ahve never been in a situation where two guys said "do you want a 3some".  In the right frame of mind I could surprise myself.

Wildly fantasising

For a girl to have a 3some with 2 guys shes never met off the internet is crazy. I would love a MMF but would have to had met at least 1 of them previously to feel comfortable. Unless you met up somewhere like CI, it wouldnt be as intimidating.

GAZ,

 

I'm into mfm 3somes I'm str8 but I dont get put off by others, I tryed guys once i 3some but it didn't take but I'm ok with other guys or girls been there

Make sure that one or both of the male participants is not so drunk he cannot perform.

Had that happen once and while it was good to have one guy there who was able to satisfy me, but having two guys make me their number one priority is something that I would love to experience again.

I`ve been in a MFM situation where both of us guys were straight and she was my better half. It was something we had both fantasised about for a while in the bedroom but i had a lot of trouble getting my head around the reality of it. As always the fantasy is sooo much easier and less complicated. The way we got around it,(and it worked fabulously), was for everyone involved to wear a mask. Taking the face out of the situation reduced the other guy involved into just a penis... not another guy to compete against or please or challenge my inhibitions. Alot of people feel more uninhibited with something to hide behind. Alot of performers create alternate personas which they use on stage and is seperate from their everyday persona,(Beyonce Knowles is an advocate and practitioner of this method). In an intimate situation it allows you to step outside of yourself or what you wish to perceived as and really let loose..... 

i guess a couples profile could work.... stating u guys are straight, just comfortable with eachother...... as id think there would be a percentage of women out there that might be open to the idea straight up.... maybe a meet you two first kinda deal, but still i think there would be a market out there...... if it works it works, if not, u aren't any worse off with your current profile....

if you do decide to do this, let us know how it goes :)

Hey Tassie- "do you want a 3some?" lol.... Now you can't say you've never been asked bebe! Actually I really like the mask idea 30 Scorpio as I enjoy playing dress ups. He'll, I'll dress us as a lesbian Cher and then it will be us two girls and the straight guy.. Lol. Or Batman and Robin... Lol ... Leaping out of the bathroom to rescue a fair maiden tied to the bed. :) As fo venues, I can see a lot of advantage in using a sex club. It is important for everyone to relax and feel safe.... and drunk guys/ high women - Definitely a turn off. My thoughts were that it's difficult enough for the two guys not to be intimidated by each other... But it surely must be intimidating for a woman unless she feels safe by reason that she knows and trusts at least one of the guys... but that situation is a normal mfm and a lot of us have done that..... I'm talking about the extraordinary where a woman meets two strangers... or well... Two guys from Rhp. Does that EVER happen? gaz

Gaz,

I think it would be a brave woman to go into a 3some with 2 men she doesn't know.  It would be easier for a guy to hook up with a willing couple if he wants to try a straight mfm 3some.

We did it recently and my hub didn't know the incoming male (i had met with him once and spoken with him several times), and it was great.  I was worried about hub suffering inadequacies or being intimidated etc...but he was brilliant, and what a truly awesome experience it was for everyone involved.

I don't know if setting up a couples profile would be the way to go, as most readers would then assume you're a romantically involved couple...but I could be wrong on that count.