Hi Firestarters,

  We have been to Club XS a couple of times now.  The staff there are the greatest and most super freindly people, which is great because the first time we spent and hour in the car working up the courage to go in and we really needed all the reassurance we could get.  There was no pressure at all to do anything, and both times we spent time watching other couples play, and discovering that we really enjoyed being voyeurs and also the exhibititionist thing of having sex (door closed) with people watching us though the windows as they passed.

  Like Rockercouple80 said, it is a bit like a small nightclub inside and upstairs there are a range of play areas including private rooms with tinted windows and adjustable lighting. So you can choose how much of an exhibitionist or outright swinger you would like to be at the time.  We do love to play with couples from RHP, but at XS we have ended up doing our own thing and so other than a bit of socialising we have enjoyed the voyeur and exhibitionist thing which is completely ok and certainly has it's own rewards.

  We are only fairly new to swinging after 20 years together, but we have certainly found that there is a whole other world of fun and adventures to be had when you find the right setting and the right people.  Go for it and have some fun together!