I post very few questions but comment instead. You could try an 'open' question (one that does not solicit a yes or no answer).
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You could direct your post at a target area, say, Men or Couples.
You could make a provoking statement or random observation about something or someone.
I prefer humour and strife, stupidity and controversy. Complex issues and ignorance. life experiences.
I avoid the 'Penis Envy' and 'Incurable Infectious Toxic Diseases'.
Keep on Posting, you are a function of those who prefer to comment.
I"ll respond to a forum topic an almost any subject if I think I have something different and or meaningful to add or something to add to the frivolous-ness-ness, but it does depend alot on the topic really. Some of them are issues I wouldn't want to get involved with and some I just have nothing to add. Some i can't be civil about so I just stay out of it.
If we took all the 'dick size' forum topis and layed them end-to-end we would have traveled around the world so I usually don't add anything to them.