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Nov 09, 2011
ExploreFun
I was alarmed to hear that the number of women undergoing Labiaplasty (reducing of Labia minor or major) is on the increase. I understand that recent pressure comes from male partners, wanting a tighter better look. I just do not get it. Valid issues of, painful sex (flapsbeing drawn in too far with thrusting), visual appearance especially with tight clothes (camel toes) and harder to hide looks.

So recognizing - what a woman does with her body is a personal choice ( I am still curious). I adore flaps as well as slightly larger clits for intimate reasons. . If it was my choice then I would seek no surgery. I do understand women who have their clit hood trimmed - (clitoral hood unroofing) - to expose their clit naturally rather than rely of their partners to push (mons pubis) and suck before intercourse.

Flaps survey:

What do women about the subject? What percentage have flaps anyway?

What do guys thinkabout flaps - any disadvantages?

Any other views?

Cheers - keen to learn and explore!!!
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MissSarahCurious  

Woman 33yrs

Survey says

I would absolutely have at least one of mine trimmed down to match the smaller one. People always seem to grab onto the larger of the two and tug or bite on it and stretch it out and i want to smack them in the back of the head. What the fuck kind of pleasurable sensation do they really expect me to gain from that? and also, can't they at least stretch the smaller one out to even them up?

Also, I don't get having your clit hood trimmed unless it was so large your clit was never exposed. Having it protected most of the time makes it more sensitive to touch when it does emerge.

xx Sarah
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fionabee

Never considered it

Happy with mine the way it is.  I guess a little de-hooding would not go astray BUT as it is such a sensitive area I would never get anything done incase it went wrong.
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tuscanred   Woman 59yrs

I think you need to do

flap survey, seems like you would really get into your project, pun intended

I would like smaller boobs, some new perky ones, the other end is nice and trim thank you very much

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caitsidhe   Woman 43yrs

Gawd..."Flaps" really???

Why would any woman in her right mind capitulate to a male partner's pressure wanting a tighter, better look...Go buy him a fleshlite...he can trim and sculpt it to his pleasure..and leave him and his perfect looking labia lips to it...
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Onlylivetwice   Man 35yrs

It's your personal choice, but...

Ladies, please don't let the surgeons do this unless you really need to...!!

Every pussy I have come face-to-face with :p has been absolutely beautiful.  Some in one way, others in another way, others in other ways, but always beautiful.

Why would any man want to see a surgeon's handiwork?  What us men want to see, touch, feel, lick and pleasure is YOU :)

Don't change ladies, love you just the way you are!  xxx
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celebree   Woman 55yrs

Pressure on Pink

My two cents worth here ..

If I don't like some part of me .. its my decision to change it ...

If a guy doesn't like some part of me (my pink bits) .. he can move on and find someone else .. there is NO way I would be pressured in to anything ..
The two parts of me I wish to change .. is .. weight loss .. and a haircut .. with summer coming in full bore .. waist length thick head hair is due for the chop at the first good hairdresser I can get in to ..
The rest of me can stay the way i am .. for i like my pink bits the way they are ..
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Nudierudie2   Woman 41yrs

thought this was going to be somthing to with Flying lessons

You are who you are....
why would anyone want to change that?
Is that Not why they fell in love with you in the first place?

Flaps Up...Flaps Down....
I might just turn myself inside out so i can Fly Home...
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MrandMrsErotic   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

Clitoris Allsorts

Love an 'Eventful Pussy'. If the Flaps(as you call them) are trimmed, then we're left with a Slit.
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duende73   Woman 38yrs

Censorship

There was an episode of Hungry Beast last year where they reported that the prevalence of females undergoing labiaplasty had increased - they then linked this back to print media and censorship laws, in that under current Australian classification guidelines, pictures within soft porn publications such as Picture or Penthouse cannot show labia minora as it's deemed to be to pornographic in nature - so it is digitally removed - thus the term "healed to a single crease" was coined.  Examples of photos between soft porn penthouse (M15) vs  Penthouse Max (R18) show vastly different versions of in some cases, the same genitals, with Max publishing pictures of female genitals in all of its non butchered glorious form.. * So you have both young men and women looking at the soft porn publications thinking that this is the acceptable norm... You could argue to the conservatives that sites like youporn and redtube may be required viewing to prove this isn't the case... * Me thinks its time to write a letter to the Office of Film and Literature Classification....
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CheyenneSC

flaps

it's easier to give raspberries with flaps.
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ogrilp400  

Man 56yrs

Exasperation! Frustration!

The faceless people of the censorship board have a lot to answer for. They have blood on their hands. At the same time the woman herself has to take some responsibility. With the huge amount of information so easily accessible on the net  why aren't they looking there. I cannot believe that they are so vain as to go down the labiaplasty path. Docos' on this subject invariably hear the woman saying "oh it hurts when I ride a bike or wear tight clothing". Very Good! how often do you ride a bike? and wear looser clothing, that fixes that! A long dress without knickers.
  And as for the surgeons performing this operation, they should be saying to these women "get a grip, look, here are a thousand photos of NORMAL fannies" But of coarse they are only interested in filling their wallets.
  I'm with you explorefun, If I was to have a preference then it would be for large labia and clit but I would never complain about any others. I find ALL women have very attractive fannies. Beautiful.
  Girls, if your man makes negative comment about down there, then tell him he has a short dick, so whats he going to do about that?

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MissSarahCurious  

Woman 33yrs

Fleshlight

Quoting 'caitsidhe'
Go buy him a fleshlite...he can trim and sculpt it to his pleasure..and leave him and his perfect looking labia lips to it...    
There are a series of fleshlights modelled on actual pornstars pussies in all their real, irregular glory. I think the Tera Patrick one looks a lot like mine :)
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ExploreFun

Typical unnatural law

Quoting 'duende73'
There was an episode of Hungry Beast last year where they reported that the prevalence of females undergoing labiaplasty had increased - they then linked this back to print media and censorship laws, in that under current Australian classification guidelines, pictures within soft porn publications such as Picture or Penthouse cannot show labia minora as it's deemed to be to pornographic in nature - so it is digitally removed - thus the term "healed to a single crease" was coined.  Examples of photos between soft porn penthouse (M15) vs  Penthouse Max (R18) show vastly different versions of in some cases, the same genitals, with Max publishing pictures of female genitals in all of its non butchered glorious form.. * So you have both young men and women looking at the soft porn publications thinking that this is the acceptable norm... You could argue to the conservatives that sites like youporn and redtube may be required viewing to prove this isn't the case... * Me thinks its time to write a letter to the Office of Film and Literature Classification....

Trust the law to get in the way of common sense. Best summary is just to let you girls alone decide.
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trumper   Man 43yrs

This could deserve its own topic

Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'
   
Quoting 'caitsidhe'
Go buy him a fleshlite...he can trim and sculpt it to his pleasure..and leave him and his perfect looking labia lips to it...    
There are a series of fleshlights modelled on actual pornstars pussies in all their real, irregular glory. I think the Tera Patrick one looks a lot like mine :)
   
Anyone else out there found a sex toy they thought they recognise?
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wowwow11   Man 39yrs

up up and away with T.A.A

without flaps the planes just wont fly or is that stop ????

 

Anyway We need FLAPS

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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

'flaps'

couldnt you have called it something at least almost respectful?  schoolboys and the like call a gals labia 'flaps'......a little more thought with your words wouldve gone a very long way........
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Manly_McHardon   Man 42yrs

Flaps

Quoting 'wowwow11'
   

without flaps the planes just wont fly or is that stop ????

 

Anyway We need FLAPS

   
Flaps are typically slightly extended for take-off to provide more lift and fully extended for landing to help slow down and fly a ....tighter....approach.  Asymmetric flap extension is a bad thing!  Ailerons, on the other hand, are often designed for asymmetric operation.
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caitsidhe   Woman 43yrs

Perfection...

Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'
Quoting 'caitsidhe'
Go buy him a fleshlite...he can trim and sculpt it to his pleasure..and leave him and his perfect looking labia lips to it...   
There are a series of fleshlights modelled on actual pornstars pussies in all their real, irregular glory. I think the Tera Patrick one looks a lot like mine :)

Yes, I do realise there are fleshlights modelled on porn stars in all their real and irregular glory...I was referring to the OP's statement of the male partner's pressure wanting a tighter, better look...if your male partner is that hideously shallow that he cannot bear the thought of sex with someone who's labia lips are not perfectly symmetrical...he should be left to his own devices...
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ogrilp400  

Man 56yrs

The net is there for fact finding

How odd that women would generally have to go out and buy soft porn and see barby fannies in it when they can research the net and see how beautiful they are in their natural state. Sexylabia, labialovers, labialane, and largelabia  are but a few sites to show how beautful vulvas are.
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SoulsinSync  

Couple Man 52yrs Woman 38yrs

google is my friend

Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'
   
Quoting 'caitsidhe'
Go buy him a fleshlite...he can trim and sculpt it to his pleasure..and leave him and his perfect looking labia lips to it...    
There are a series of fleshlights modelled on actual pornstars pussies in all their real, irregular glory. I think the Tera Patrick one looks a lot like mine :)
   
Anybody else go out and google "Tera Patrick pussy" after reading this???

Sorry MissSarahCurious...I couldn't help myself! ;)

MR SinS (love that abbreviation of our name! Lol)
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