We have been on RHP for a little bit now.
We have had so many guys wanting to play and some couples but none of the ladies. Our ultimate fantasy is to share a lady together yet are finding it extremely difficult to find a lady to help us with our quest. We were always looking to going down the path of a lady first (Mrs lifelong fantasy) and then to a couple for different fun.
Is this a common thing being so difficult or maybe we are just going about it the wrong way? Any suggestions or offers would be extremely welcome.
K + R
Hi there JnJ,
Yes we too have had difficulties with this. I really don't know why it's so difficult, I think it might be just that - they are single. The single women are probably looking for other singles to play with, and lets face it they have a lot to choose from! I guess it might be a bit of a scary experience rocking up to play with a couple on your own. Any tips peeps, do let us know!
I have noticed that some couples enter into to swinging scene because their lady, discovers/works out she is bisexual or bicurious and her man wants to let her 1. experiment, and of course 2. be involved as it is most men's ultimate fantasy isn't it?
....perhaps it just has to be couple en couple rather than hoping for that single woman to have fun with. It's a shame that even really awesome validations don't seem to assist a single woman to feel a bit safer or keener to play with the couple either.
Anywayz goodluck in your search.
Mwa ... earthlydelights.
Hey thank you for the reply. We see now that it is not just us which is good and maybe we do need to look more towards the couples side of things first.
And yes you are right with what you said in your message, we are going along this path as it is a big fantasy for mrs to explore the interaction with another lady and hell why wouldn't I let her explore that side hehehehe. Wouldn't pass that one up.
It is funny that I also see that you are from Strath. Small world is what I would say
Hey anyway take care and thanks again
J+J XOXOXOXO