have to agree there would be nice to see some more use this area

well we're only new,but I will most likely be spending time in here in the future

Welcome inquisitve not enough ppl use this thats for sure

why thank you hun,its good to know we're not the only ones who like a good forum or two to hang out in while we seek out that special someone we all seek for one reason or other. so how are we going to liven up this place. one curious question... how many ppl admit to living somewhere other than their location on their profiles simply cos they don't want their locals knowing they have a secret life they like to keep private ? in our town ,everyone else usually knows your business before you do,so we just picked on the  nearest city .

in response to the above question about not being entirely accurate with your location - I think a lot of people have that feeling that they dont want to give away something that close to "home" litterally - but at the same time It probably has practical benefit - eg there's so many suburbs around melbourne city, and they are all fairly close - for the most part it would be more informative for people if you just say melbourne city... For us, living in Hobart we both live in the city so it's no lie to say that we do... and even if we didn't we have nothing to hide. Its a shame that people in this age care so much about appearances. It's a fairly old-school concept, being judged for your sexuality... the biggest shame is if you actually care what people think about you!