Does sex and alcohol mix ?

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Does sex and alcohol mix ?

May 13, 2012
bkevz
Hi everyone,

Just seeking your opinion on drinking before sex or not ?

bkevz
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timandjane

Prefer not to drink or very little.

Personally sex when sober is much better. More aware of whats going on and more connected with your body. Though we are not big drinkers to begin with.

Tim
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brave__heart

Sex with drunk men

Has always been a terrible disappointment. They usually go soft repeatedly, fumble around, or leave me feeling like I've been chewed up and spat out. On the other hand, the warm fuzzies that can come from 1-2 drinks can add a little sumthin sumthin to the experience :) On a recent post a woman (I think) said a drink or two can loosen a woman's inhibitions and make it easier to orgasm, if she usually finds that tricky. I'll let you know next time I get a chance to try it out ;) There are exceptions of course, and drunk fumbly or maybe aggressive sex possibly rocks sometimes. Rare though, I would think x
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Handmaiden  

Woman 50yrs

Brewers Droop?

Not the best course of action...no!

Having said that.....in my younger days, I had some awesome drunk sex.

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amuse_bouche  

Woman 23yrs

Sobriety is hot

In my opinion, people are simply ugly after one too many drinks. One or two to unwind and have a laugh, but I draw the line at that - sobriety doesn't impair your judgment or the sensations going on around you...and if it turns out to be an amazing time, you will remember all the details the day after ;)
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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

Not in my home.

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slippery_halo   Man 26yrs

Off come the clothes then out flops the hose...

Alcohol makes you more likely to have sex, because it decreases inhibitions, but it also decreases the sensitivity and the bloodflow to men's and women's bits. Leading to the problem men can have with staying hard or getting hard in the first place.  Women are also more likely to experience dryness, pain, an inability to orgasm and other sexual problems after having a lot of booze.

 

And of course there's the problem of people doing things under the influence they later regret. If they haven't been drinking it removes that possibility.

 

If you're looking for something that can make the experience, the excitement, the bloodflow and the erection more powerful, I'd advise trying the opposite class of drugs to alcohol. Yes, alcohol is a drug, and it is a depressant, which means it depresses or slows down the central nervous system.  Try the opposite, try stimulants. I'm talking legal and safe here of course. There's caffeine, herbal supplements like ginko biloba and ginseng, yohimbe. Happy Herbs and similar stores have various herbal preparations intended to increase everything and even Adult Stores stock "virility coffee".

 

Damiana, while not a stimulant, can induce some of the warmth and arousal that people use alcohol to achieve.

 

And now the common sense disclaimer: I'm just a guy on a kinky forum, not a medical professional. Consult your doctor/pharmacist and follow directions on packaging of any herbal supplements before use. Do not use if you have a heart condition, are pregnant or breastfeeding, or have severe anxiety. But then alcohol is worse for all of those things anyway.

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bkevz

Some goes a long way


   
I definitely agree with all your comments and definitely works as an icebreaker for close/one off encounters or a romantic gesture for couples..

I've definitely felt less awkward and more confident..

"lil_bit_angelic " Looking forward your feedback
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Hesione

alcohol and sex

Sometimes, a glass or two of something yummy can enhance the experience....but drunken sex is ugly...or so I have heard.
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2balloons   Man 40yrs

From my experience....

A lot of the answer comes down to the calibre of both the sex and the alcohol, as well as the people involved.

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ahhh..

so it's not just me that can't keep it up if he's sozzled?

why does that not make me feel any better :-P

though it does give me the chance to show off my "watch me put a condom off a soft willy trick"

~golf clap~
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mikeandshel   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 52yrs

alcohol?

....its how ugly people get sex...
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Bahleeted1

Going to disagree here...

I've had some wild times whilst off my trolley.  Generally with people off their trolley too.  As long as there's plenty of water available to keep re-hydrated during the exercise, I'm an fan.

OK, so "off my trolley" may be an exagerration as it's rare I get that tanked I'm close to passing out or throwing up, but enough lubrication to drop those inhibitions, for both parties.

Of course, you need to be able to handle the consequences of your actions - my inhibitions are always close to being dropped with the right encouragement anyway so it's very unusual for me to regret anything done whilst sloshed.
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QLDtwo4fun   Couple Man 52yrs Woman 41yrs

Seriously?

Consider how you react to alcohol.  If your a two pot screamer, give it a miss before sex.  If your a regular drinker, one or two probably won't hurt.  Sex is about sensory perception,  anything that inhibits your senses will inhibit your ability to respond to your partners, or for you to maximize your enjoyment.
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roxxyrose

drunk sex

is never to be spoken about

 

Hugs

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so long as

your not bouncing of walls (mmm think u know what I mean here) or slurred speech, so talk as you normally talk and walk as you normally walk when sober its fine with me

not saying it is needed or not just saying the limits

Before the internet and sites like this people went to pubs and clubs to find a partner more often than not...so in a lot of cases more than less would probably prefer a drink before hand...saying that I am seriously considering to try out the shopping centres and cafe bars just for an inner different approach and to try some thing new, new turf will bring new lines and direction


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Hesione

cafe cultured

Heedless,you just made me laugh so hard, I choked on my coffee.I have visions of you as the Mall Stalker,or the Coffee Club Cassanova.I shall follow this new career path of yours with interest.

I do hope you wont need a 'Get Out of Jail Card' to go with the Frequent Sipper card!!x Hugs H or judy-ruby

 

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tuscanred   Woman 60yrs

TRS cocktail mixers

The sexy cocKtail drinks mix



The droopy cock :



All that is required is a carton beer and a bright idea. This cocktail does not need to be mixed as the swivel stick never gets hard enough;



The limp noodle:

Only affects male drinkers , its a energy drink cause it makes them try to reach top performance with equipment that is just not working. Folding it in half and trying to push it in, can be a side affect for both men and women. The droopy cock and the limp noodle combined can cause premature speculation.



The browsheet.

This is when you think your at home and fart with a follow through, the Yellow sheet is another version of the same cocktail



The charmingchuckler:

Mix booze of any kind or alcohol with carrots. Dance around the nightclub to mix and wait till you get back to the woman’s bedroom to partake of this delightful mix, best when hurled into white carpet.



The optical illusion:

most common cocktail enjoyed by both men and women. Make sure you leave the hotel or nightclub before the fluoro lights go on or it will loose its affect



The slippery dick. If a man has to many of these his cock will keep slipping out





The fuck frenzy: this is what attracts bees to the honey, a woman has one sip and her mouth and pussy open to all and sundry. Most bars have stopped serving this as blow jobs in public were of concern to other patrons.

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someonefunto   Man 36yrs

sometimes

Sometimes it is great ...lets ppl that dont normally be adventures ...go crazy
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InAdditionTo   Couple Man 38yrs Woman 37yrs

Drunk isn't sexy...at all

For us, we find it quite alarming if our playmates get drunk and in an ideal world we'd like to put a limit on how much alcohol gets consumed...clearly that's not possible as we are all adults and we understand also that it is not our place to do so! 

We find that intoxicated people are unpredictable and become increasingly less sexy the more they drink.  We like to play with people completely connected to themselves and alcohol limits your ability to do that.  After all, we become attracted to the person during sobriety and it is that person that we want to play with, not their intoxicated alter ego.

But, having said that, I enjoy a glass of wine or two (but no more) but I'd never allow myself to get drunk.  And assuming we really like the person sober, it wouldn't be enough to prevent us seeing them again (unless it was every time).


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mikeandshel   Couple Man 50yrs Woman 52yrs

yes


Quoting 'InAdditionTo'
    For us, we find it quite alarming if our playmates get drunk and in an ideal world we'd like to put a limit on how much alcohol gets consumed...clearly that's not possible as we are all adults and we understand also that it is not our place to do so! 

We find that intoxicated people are unpredictable and become increasingly less sexy the more they drink.  We like to play with people completely connected to themselves and alcohol limits your ability to do that.  After all, we become attracted to the person during sobriety and it is that person that we want to play with, not their intoxicated alter ego.

But, having said that, I enjoy a glass of wine or two (but no more) but I'd never allow myself to get drunk.  And assuming we really like the person sober, it wouldn't be enough to prevent us seeing them again (unless it was every time).


   
well said..... we see the same.....that alcohol makes people and situations unpredictable. people do things they dont usually, and behave in ways that arent who they usually are. we meet people when they are sober, as thats when they are at their best.........in our books.......and we try very hard to not have alcohol around when we play...at least not in any quantity.......

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