Met someone here and it lasted 3 years ..however because we did meet on here, he didnt believe that the normal" rules" of a relationship - being you dont screw around without discussion and being open and honest applied.....he always said that those "rules" didnt apply because we met on a sex site...so my advice to you is, that if my bloke thought that...MAYBE others will as well
Good luck though....who knows what the successful formula is ???
People on this site who say that is what they are looking for,but I think the odds are against that actually happening.
However if that is what you are looking for,try other sites and agencies that do the matching and sorting for you.
Talk to your friends,they may know someone,be confident and optimistic OP and perhaps Mr Right,rather than Mr Right Now, will find you.x Hugs Hesione Optimist
How honest you are with yourself. Be it male or female that are looking, if you can't be honest with yourself as to what you want, then you won't be honest with the person that you are interracting with. That said though, it does have to be said that prepare yourself to wait, as being true to your own convictions doesn't necessarily mean you're going to score within the first few weeks of being here.
Just my take..
Chris
One of my very dearest of friends...
I met her and her (Then) partner on here..
He turned into a dick, like a fat slimy slug, crawling through the undergrowth.... she turned into a beautiful butterfly..
Her and I will be friends for life - this I am certain.
We had a few tendernesses, and she is now with another fella... I have never asked if he knows where and how we met, and that is of no matter anyway.
The HER and I part is a lovely friendship..
the future.. "Who knows??"
**siiigh**
caveman.. fondness~
Perversity is always ready to consort with human nature...Norman Mailer
What we think we want, is not necessarily what we want,when we get itx Hugs H
I did! Well not this site but one very similar to it. We had only known each other for two weeks when he asked me to marry him. I have never been married, never felt the need and was more surprized than anyone else when I said yes.
Sex is a large part of any relationship. It is not THE only part and really is not important unless you get it wrong. At least on these sites you have the chance of getting the sexual side of things right first up.
I know a few people who have met their partners through either this or other sites.
Kisses
Focus