Ok so I have see a few topics about self esteem and body image etc etc Got me and Mr talking about if we notice flaws while having a sexy encounter with people.
I was wondering... Do you actually notice the flaws in a play partner while you are doing the deed or are you too focussed on what is going on?
If he tried to talk to me when he is eating......me
I don't even see them as "flaws". We're all just people. I can have sex with an airbrushed picture in a magazine if I really want but they're not very soft and they give terrible head, so I prefer humans in the flesh every time.
If something did capture my attention I'd just acknowledge it mentally and get back to the fun.
"Oh, that nipple is an innie and not an outie. That was unexpected but I don't care!"
Just like I hope my sexual partners don't linger over my ritual scarification or my Savage Garden Forever tattoo.
I mean no shit, he ask me to bed he started to undress me , he had me on my back and unbuttoned my top and pulled back my shirt and said, ohh wow and kissed my boobs and then
He shook his head and said Shit I cant do this and ran out the door...I thought what the fuck and kept my clothes on and never had sex for three years as was just to embarrassed after that one.
imagine there are a lot of disappointment stories to be told from this site.
I think it’s
because we first make contact on a web site.
really knows who they are dealing with until the first meet.
If you meet
someone at a social gathering, or at work etc. you can see how that person
behaves and make your decisions on the spot. There’s no obligation.
So if you weren’t
happy with that person, you wouldn’t take it any further.
a web site is a bit different.
speaking from a bloke’s point of view here. (My point of view, not all blokes)
to all the trouble of getting neatly dressed, bought the flowers and the
chockies , and booked a table in a nice restaurant , and in walks one of the
immediately turn into a Charlie Sheen slump buster.
look lovely, but as soon as they open their mouths, nine out the ten voices in my
head are screaming “RUN”
So if I can
get away with it, I will go the “dinky pop” and disappear into the night.
If no dinky
pop, just simply disappear.
Flowers, chockies..... geeze I consider myself lucky if I get taken to a restaurant....
Turning up is a bonus in my book...... disappearing down the "dinky pop" is what comes next I guess!!!
I had a guy leave once 'cos I served smoked salmon crepes........ I didn't even get MY clothes off.
you probably intimidated him with your classy menu....next time serve frozen pizza or dim sims...that should do it.
Now what happened to that bogan thread.x Hugs H