If he tried to talk to me when he is eating......me

 

how rude.

 

 

I am having sex  with someone I always keep a notebook handy for this very reason.It takes a long time to jot everything down  sometimes but taking photos of all the wrinkles,saggy skin,scars etc helps.x Hugs H

Ha ha Red, do you have a degree in dentist?  Does it matter if they talk, I can't understand what they are saying anyway!?

I don't even see them as "flaws". We're all just people.  I can have sex with an airbrushed picture in a magazine if I really want but they're not very soft and they give terrible head, so I prefer humans in the flesh every time.

 

If something did capture my attention I'd just acknowledge it mentally and get back to the fun.

"Oh, that nipple is an innie and not an outie. That was unexpected but I don't care!"

 

Just like I hope my sexual partners don't linger over my ritual scarification or my Savage Garden Forever tattoo.

You know, this is one of the saddest things about dating. The difference in attitudes between men and women.

Obviously there has to be an initial attraction, but personality and a connection is so much more important. None of us have perfect bodies, would be boring if we did.

Savage Garden Tattoo ? Kick the stool my dream is shattered

 

I mean no shit, he ask me to bed he started to undress me , he had me on my back and unbuttoned my top and pulled back my shirt and said, ohh wow and kissed my boobs and then

 

He shook his head and said Shit I cant do this and ran out the door...I thought what the fuck and kept my clothes on and never had sex  for three years as was just to embarrassed after that one.

 

 

 

And I'm cool with that..

But when they bring out a red texta and start putting rings around them.  That's going a bit far!!

Haha, love it, slippery halo :) I love my tats - if someone's going to have a nasty reaction to mine then there's a good chance I'm not going to enjoy their company as much...

On a more serious note, I see my tats as my battle scars - they're markings which reflect my mood, thoughts and feelings at the time they were etched in to me, bdsm247 :)

Imperfections on a body can be earned by overcoming adversity or hardship. To me, in the context of intercourse, they can reflect a sexy strength, or psychological hardiness that that person has experienced and boldly overcome, or had the courage to walk away from- scarred, but in tact. I met a girl in my travels to NY who said that people who lived in New York developed a warrior scar across their face after having lived in NY for a given amount of time. Not a physical marking necessarily, but an emotional hardiness which their circumstance has induced, and can be felt in the presence of others. When this girl, Brenda, said that to me, I was in awe of New Yorkers :) I *think* that it relates to what you're saying. I think...

I guess no one can make another person feel better about their body, but hopefully it helps that there are people out there who see these perceived flaws as something to celebrate rather than hold in poor esteem. I personally think you look gorgeous, bdsm247 - and having spoken to you on chat, i happen to know you've got a very sexy personality, too ;)

Lucky hubby!

TR, I've already met you and all I can say is that your paramour of that time must have heard the guide dog he had parked outside being kidnapped. For goodness sake, TR, you're gorgeous! There needs to be an Australian Citizenship Card recycling centre, where unworthy Alpha male Aussies can drop their cards in for Beta (= better) males to use.

I tend not to really notice until it's pointed out to me through their self-conscious behaviour. We're all built in different ways, after all. If they're self-conscious about it I usually just distract them or joke it off... I cant really talk, being a person with a blue birthmark on my ass :p

all in the mind.... when someone feels beautiful , is beautiful...

Talking whilst dinning at the Y, that is quite a feat.
Bobtail_3, nailed it.....mumblesu  ckmumble 

I would imagine there are a lot of disappointment stories to be told from this site.

I’ve got one myself.

I think it’s because we first make contact on a web site.

Nobody really knows who they are dealing with until the first meet.

If you meet someone at a social gathering, or at work etc. you can see how that person behaves and make your decisions on the spot. There’s no obligation.

So if you weren’t happy with that person, you wouldn’t take it any further.

Dating from a web site is a bit different.

I’m speaking from a bloke’s point of view here. (My point of view, not all blokes)

I’ve gone to all the trouble of getting neatly dressed, bought the flowers and the chockies , and booked a table in a nice restaurant , and in walks one of the Fudd sisters.

They immediately turn into a Charlie Sheen slump buster.

Or they look lovely, but as soon as they open their mouths, nine out the ten voices in my head are screaming “RUN”

So if I can get away with it, I will go the “dinky pop” and disappear into the night.

If no dinky pop, just simply disappear.

Back to the topic, I generally notice the flaws in people fairly quickly, and that determines whether I do the deed or not.
(If it was ever on the cards in the first place)
There are exceptions (Read above).

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Flowers, chockies..... geeze I consider myself lucky if I get taken to a restaurant....

 

Turning up is a bonus in my book...... disappearing down the "dinky pop" is what comes next I guess!!!

 

I had a guy leave once 'cos I served smoked salmon crepes........ I didn't even get MY clothes off.

Smoked salmon crepes !! what was his problem?? I would crawl 10 Klm over broken bottles for that.... Well maybe 5 Klm... 2...1.25...I would do extraordinary things for you. Like nude cartwheels.
The man dosn't deserve a dinky pop. A dinky pop is like a reverse knee trembler by the way, as opposed to a hop on.
Yep I've got all the moves baby.
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you probably intimidated him with  your  classy menu....next time serve frozen pizza or dim sims...that should do it.

Now what happened to that bogan thread.x Hugs H

I'm over here in Perth and I miss the Victoria Markets dim sims !