Registered on datefinder, and over the course of a few days ended up with 20 'expressions of interest', most of these where from 150km +, now i would like to know - if someone said 'yes' to you - would you actually tavel for the fun?? or do you just express the interest cause you can and not have any intentions of following through.
Living out of the city, many people equate this with Mars.
I have known of too many women, who pluck, shave, shower make up, the sexy gear the guy ask for corsets etc.
Stagger to the car in ten inch heels
Only to have to drive to the back of bum fuck to get fucked for ten whole seconds and shown the door.
One woman said , can I please have a coffee I have driven an hour and half, he said there is a coffee shop next door. Did not even offer a drink of water. Yes she had meet him before and he was quiet the charmer so she thought it would be worth the trip.
Another guy got a blow job and went out the door before she could get off her knees. WTF was that!
Some guys idea of a date is meet me in the park and blow me.
Some women do the constant coffee of a meal thing and the poor guy drives miles to pay for a meal and the only thing he gets to pull out of his pants is his bankcard.
I could not be bothered to go the distance for sex, but then for me its easy I have my own place away from my house its a lot harder if you cant play at home, so you have to go the distance.
I think a lot of people go to a lot of trouble and get let down on RHP with others not showing up etc.
Take a date closer to home that way if it never works out you can go home and put your feet back in your fluffy slippers.
But also not so close to home, that he ends up being the guy, packing your groceries into your shopping bag for you with a grin on his face.