"Friends with benefits, no strings attached, fuck buddy & discrete"

............well how many times do we see this on a profile..... Lets talk about what people believe this is??? please feel free to add your comments!

ACESO thinks that these mean........

"FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS"  a person to hang out with - do friend things like coffee, movie, parties, drinks....not to act like a couple ( hold hands ....public affection) but to do friend things....and at the end of the day....go home and fuck each other silly no relationship!

"NO STRINGS ATTACHED"....You come , you fuck .... you leave ... you dont contact unless u want some fun !  aka- "wombat" eat roots and leaves!

"FUCK BUDDY" similar to NSA however you may talk about general day to day stuff after sex! pillow talk &  you remember their name ....and  they usually are a regular  visitor!

"DISCRETE" usually means he/she is someone elses.... and well i am not here to judge... i understand most people in these cases are more than happy and in love with thier partner but for what ever reason they are not sexually satisified.  I believe that by offering a discrete safe environment for these kinda people to 'scratch the itch! ' they then go home and love their partner even more :) community service!  our sexuality is such a big part of who we are i dont believe it is good for the soul to suppress this!

so who would agree with me so far????

Now the question...... do men really know what they want????

I dont have a problem with any of the above mentioned situations....infact i rather like all of them.... i have different men in my life that each fit into these catorgries!  actually there maybe a few more that need to be there to like "headjob men hahaha!

i have been apart of this world for many many years and abide by all rules ...i like to establish what people want straight up and then go from there....

but damn men...do u know what u want???

NSA - dont tell me about your life! hell dont tell me your name!

Friends with benefits - I wont fall in love with you just because I'd like to hangout with you and I remember your name!

Discrete - then whats good for one is good for all....dont tell your mates!!! and be careful , i am not interested in messing up any relationship and dont want cranky ex's on my door!

really am I the only one that thinks that people really use these terms too loosely?

I know I am not your average girl, I dont need to "get to know you" first.... sex is sex.... and lust is lust and love is love.... they are all very different things....

men i believe need to understand this a little more and abide by their own rules .... dont do relationship things with your NSA friends!

it just makes it all messy!

RULES RULES RULES and honestly... i am not a fool...and have learnt first hand that there is only one thing you can put a rule on and that is love...but damn...at least be honest to yourself and if he/she has signed up for one thing and your worried its not goin to stay that way...be up front.... and if that means the end of it ...then so be it!

comments welcomed but judgements, you may keep to yourself !