Criteria...how we judge,assess or identify the people we want to meet
Boundary....marking the limits of those relationshipsx Hugs H
Most of the people I have connected with live interstate.I answer all flirts and messages.I am prepared to meet most people who contact me,who fit my age criterion and who I have something in common with.
However this week alone, I agreed to meet two people and then they both cancelled.This happens quite often.
In the three months since I joined this site I have met four people.
It can be time consuming and disapointing but then you meet the one person who makes it all worthwhile...er well hopefully .
xHugs Hesione Eternal Optimist
Been there a few times myself, but attraction is attraction
and a "paper match" can mean so little.
There are so many things, so many variables, even something as
base as the mood she might be in at the time.
I think it's real "in the lap of the god's" meets Lotto type stuff.
You gotta be in it to win it though.
Here's hoping your lucky number comes up soon bud.
Post of the week I think!
In the end though, people are people, and want what they want, good, bad or otherwise.
swimming against the tide isn't a healthy option.
You will never convince them otherwise, and it's pointless to try.
For myself, my only boundaries are do I like where your head is at, and a degree of smarts,
and of course some chemistry.....the most elusive and intangible of all ingredients.