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Aug 18, 2012
Taby_Daring   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 23yrs

I know I’m not really meant to use to forums for this purpose but I’m getting frustrated!

I am looking for genuine bi-sexual girls who are part of a couple, attached or single who are able to play alone with a girl one on one possibly with the option of having her join me and my guy for a threesome or couple on couple play further down the track (girl on girl comes first and is my top priority) however after pouring over profile after profile of single girls as well as couples I’ve found very few girls who actually say they are up for this.

Most say they are bi curious which I want to avoid as I want my first girl on girl to be with an experienced Bi-sexual girl who knows what she is doing and can show me the best time possible… So where are all the experienced Bi girls?

Taby x

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Paradisepair   Couple Man 40yrs Woman 40yrs

Puts her hand up

For one on one. I'd like to try that. I reckon maybe the girls you approach think you're either fake or bait for your man...
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Taby_Daring   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 23yrs

@ beachbelle

Me and him have sat down and had a long conversation about what we both want  from our couples profile and he is fine with letting me play one on one with a girl without him being present. In fact he said he would even leave the house if I was to hook up with a girl because all he wants is for me to feel comfy and enjoy my first girl on girl experince. I have had a FFM before however the focus was on the guy both us girls where straight and I was the third person so I dont count that as a true girl on girl experince. I want my first proper experince to be without a guy present so I can find out if I truely swing that way or not without having male distraction there. I dont belive in doing anything by halves.

 

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Cheekyarses  

Couple Man 41yrs Woman 40yrs

confidence

I agree with beach belle with this. Have you been with a girl by yourself before? There are girls out there that do play alone, but you really need to have the confidence in approaching them, as they too would like someone who is experienced xxx
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goldcoastcple69   Couple Man 39yrs Woman 28yrs

when and where? lol

im looking for the same thing...and im in southport

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amuse_bouche  

Woman 23yrs

...

Quoting 'beachbelle'
    So youre saying you were in a ffm and didnt play with the girl? What a wasted opportunity.
If you were that way inclined at all you wouldve been all over her lmao.

Well as the OP said, it was a straight FFM so I don't think the other straight lass would have appreciated Taby being 'all over her' unless she gave any indication of being interested.

As others have said already, some of the bi girls would probably prefer to have two playmates at the time rather than just the one, unless they were in the same situation as you or otherwise gay.

Patience... the right opportunity will come up eventually x
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dirtydog70   Couple Man 42yrs Woman 44yrs

goldcoastcple69

Yes please miss goldcoastcple69
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pantherkun

Queensland..darn..

Wow, based on your profile we have a lot in common..anyway..

From the perspective of a single girl, I do sometimes feel apprehensive about approaching a male/female couple as I am not interested in a situation where I'm having sole contact with the male only (imo that's missing the point of a FFM threesome). Though I was lucky enough to find a couple who allowed me to play with the female only. You do seem very upfront about what you want which is the first step, and like others have said, the next step is patience, patience. =)

Perhaps try seeking out women with a singles profile, if you are comfortable playing alone with one? Just for the sake of gaining some same-sex experience, i wouldn't rule out lesbian women too.
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gypzie1   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 49yrs

Female Female Fun ;)

I am the female from a couple profile and I DO play one on one with like minded women, hubby knows about this and is happy for me to do so.  We also play FMFM & FMF. There is women out there that do like to play one on one it's just a matter of finding one that is happy to play with bi-curious, I personaly dont mind as I was once curious ;)

Dont give up it will happen when u least exspect it :D

 

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MissSarahCurious  

Woman 34yrs

I think you really need 2 girls

One to be with on your own, and one to be with you and your man. Those are 2 different scenarios.

Many girls are looking for only one of those things, and if they're interested in just being with you on your own, you're probably going to put them off by the idea of your man being there at all. Not your fault, it's just that there are many many many single girl profiles that are really a couple wanting so it's an instant dealbreaker for real single girls looking for other real single girls to play with.

Best of luck.

xx Sarah

PS my first time with a woman was also her first time too and it was amazing, neither of us wanted or needed to be "shown what to do" by someone who knew "better", it was great being both in the same boat. I highly recommend it!
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Waterbabes   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 32yrs

Yes, I feel your frustration

I posted a similar thread to this a while back as I was equally frustrated - totally been there! One avenue is to first develop a connection with a couple and once a level of trust is there, suggest to them your scenario of one on one just the ladies to meet up and see what they say. Perhaps you could then even organise a night away for the girls....dont forget to pack your outfits and toys!! You never know, your bond might become strong enough with the other couple for them to play on their own with you and you with them. Then the optoins are endless and quite wonderful  XXX
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Georgie19   Woman 36yrs

Go for it

Taby

Why dont you go with bi curous?  Ideally I'm looking for the same but I think if you have 2 bi curious women in a room together who are into eachother, one thing will lead to another.

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S3ductr3ss   Woman 37yrs

PMSL…

Not surprised s3d
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friskyfun2012   Woman 35yrs

me too

Yes I feel your pain.
I am married have had a ffm with hubby
I am bi I love all things soft and girly and my hubby is very keen for me to have my own playmate.
He understands that this is part of who I am and he wants me to be myself and happy. He would love another ffm but he knos me having a friend+benefits is 1st.
:-P
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cupcakefortwo

I do...

I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.

It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.

Besides... more hands are better than 2!
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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 52yrs

umm

Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'
I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.

It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.

Besides... more hands are better than 2!

didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?
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cupcakefortwo

Not quite..but I understand what you're saying...

No, actually playing solo to me, is when he hasn't ever met the girl..when he's not involved in any of the decision making, or any conversational interaction, and/or then doesn't join in.


And for us, the thread I posted about was the guy and girl wanted just me, and not him at all..

x


Quoting 'mikeandshel'
   
Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'
I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.

It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.

Besides... more hands are better than 2!

didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?    

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fwb2570hotmale

Bisexual

Does it count if Im a lesbian trapped in a mans body? Dont tell me to go f myself.......Its not that easy.
Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'
No, actually playing solo to me, is when he hasn't ever met the girl..when he's not involved in any of the decision making, or any conversational interaction, and/or then doesn't join in.


And for us, the thread I posted about was the guy and girl wanted just me, and not him at all..

x


Quoting 'mikeandshel'
   
Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'
I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.

It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.

Besides... more hands are better than 2!

didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?   


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Taby_Daring   Couple Man 35yrs Woman 23yrs

@ Mischeviouslad

LOL sorry to confuse you. Yes we do both have single profiles from when we both use to be single (we met through rhp) I didnt see the point of deleting my single profile because its verified and Im using it to look for women. We then decided to set up a couples profile once we offically started dating to look for single girls/couples/events. He has his own single profile he never uses nor has he updated it but hes a guy they do that... lol I trust him completly so it doesnt worry me at all that he still has his profile up because I know hes only interested in playing with other when hes with me.

Oh and the situation has been updated. We attended a swingers club (Chateau Vino) on the Gold Coast and took a dive right into the deep end and had a very eye opening time with some couples/single girl from rhp. I have now played with a few girls and can say with confidence I swing both ways

T.

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Dieselnoi  

Man 27yrs

Strip Club

I heard it's very easy for women to meet another woman at strip club. Maybe try that?
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ffmseeker  

Couple Man 38yrs Woman 38yrs

Girl on girl action

Can I say that girl on girl action is amazing! I have been lucky to have head my first experience as a single woman with a lesbian girl...omg! What an experience. Since meeting my man, we have been lucky enough to have had the most amazing single girl that we met. We played as a threesome, but my man was comfortable enough to leave us alone & we spent plenty of time with me helping her to feel comfortable with her being with another woman. If you can find it Taby_Daring, take it...I love my man, but a woman's body is simply SEXY!!!!

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