Something I've been thinking about a lot lately, either from a reaction to something I've said personally, as well as read on a forum post, or even just observing the fast moving goings on in the chat rooms is...............
What seems to be a backwards movement in acceptance and or tolerance of another human being's sexuality, kinks or fetishes. It's really not all that long ago that people started feeling comfortable enough to 'out' themselves with something they find incredibly hot, or wickedly twisted n kinky to an open hearted audience who instead of piping up with a big EEEWWWW would ask sensible questions of the person in order to find out more, to understand, to at least TRY and see it from another's perspective.
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Lately I have been witnessing more gay bashing and bi-male bashing on the forums than I ever have before, not only that....but instead of hearing out a persons fetishes, they have been shoved back to a place where they only feel comfortable talking about 'vanilla' situations.
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Why? Why go backwards?
this is a site where people come for exploration, not only 'extra sex' .........finding like minded girls n guys to take it from fantasy to reality in most cases.
We have no right to 'EEWWWWW' anyone for what they enjoy, how fkn dare we??
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Oh that's right! There must be something incredibly wrong with them , for them to like anything out of the norm
Pffffft get over yourselves!
The only thing that should be rigid and inflexible in an open sexual based forum is the dicks when they read something they really get turned on by.....and you know what? Not even then, because god only knows there is probably a soft cock fetish out there too
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Here's a test for all you supposed non-judgemental, free thinking, sexually open people........
The very next time you see or read something and your involuntary EWWWWW comes out.....STOP......dont say it
Go and ask the person to explain their side of it, ask them why it turns them on so....you may be surpised by the harmless simplicity of it, or at the very least ...just confirm that it is not for you.
Challenge yourself to be truly open minded on a sexual level
I double dog dare ya!!