Ok, this is not going to be another whinging thread, I promise!!
We are all guilty of cancelling on people from time to time - we did it the other week within a couple of hours and we were the hosts! It happens, that's life. We were cancelled on twice in one week recently which can be hard when you have organised babysitters, declined other offers, don't get to play very often etc etc, and then you end up sitting at home watching the footy and drinking too much haha!
So, my question is, what do you do when this happens to you? What's your method of getting over it? Do you and your partner get it on and webcam instead? Or do you wallow in grumpyness? Do you go out clubbing and try to pick up? Or do you go to the couples club praying there might be some hot people there? Do you madly start trying to find someone else sending messages out willy-nilly?
Looking forward to hearing your stories! XXX
We were stood up last saturday night of course you never think the hot night you have planned for is not going to happen until after an hour or so waiting lol.
What we did was go online and see if there were any willing players in the very near vicinity. Of course there aint lol.
So we just had to have very hot sex on our own and let our fustrations out on each other in bed.
which works very well lol
But if there was a club within cooeee of us we probably would of went.
mmmm Might have to create a club in country NSW now that would be great lol
Yes, we understand how frustrating this can be as a host, especially when you have gone to the trouble of arranging sitters or even worse kids sleep overs and plans are cancelled at the last minute. You cannot help but feel cheated as planning these nights takes a lot of effort, then you think of what else you could have planned or you get the guilts because you have put your kids and family out.
I guess that is why we prefer to meet others at parties, so if plans change there are always others to meet.
We have had to cancel last minute on a party before, due to a sitter not showing, etc. But we have never cancelled last minute on a date.
Sure we get ticked off and maybe a bit grumpy :( ....But if we meet up again, there will be spankings or maybe a whiping :)
Mrs P will have her riding crop at the ready.
Punishment is in order, lol....yes you must pay. x
Yep, both people we know very well and both had very legitimate reasons for cancelling. We have no gripes what so ever with either of them and I know we will catch up again soon (when planets collide and moons align!).
On another note, when we first joined sans kids, we had the meet first, play later rule too. Very wise - we are far more flexible nowdays. If we hit it off with people when we meet and everyone is comfortable, we play and that has worked fine for us. We don't get very many opportunities to play, or to go out and socialise for that matter away from kiddie things, so for us, we have relaxed that rule. So far so good! XXX