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Jun 21, 2012
Hi everyone,

Why is it that girls regularly block people when the blockee has never spoken to them or had reason to be blocked?

I go on cam regularly and figure if you are prepared to go on cam, you should be prepared to be watched by everyone. If you don't like being watched, don't go on cam! I personally think it's rude to block someone for no reason. Come on fairs fair.

I regularly get watched by guys (would prefer more girls though...lol) but I don't block them. If they like what they see then go for it!

What do you think? I don't think I'm out of line here?!
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there's more than one answer here.....

And it's not just the girls that do the blocking.

 

 

I will block people in the chat if they are being rude or obnoxious to other people,

If they are overly insistent in their whispers after being warned not to be,

If they persistently try to direct some cam action (especially mine or my wife's),

 

 

The odd, "could you please lower/raise, move your cam" politely framed request is fine.

 

Also, some women are there to chat and play with other women and dont want guys dropping in on that.

 

 

Nat;)

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Hesione

Choice

Surely just because you are on cam as you say ,you should be able to pick and choose, who  you want to watch you.

If you are a paid porn star, or post on amateur porn sites then that is different.

Some men I am sure, block other men.Some women probably don't block anyone.Some women may block other women.

All about choice,and the reasons are irrelevant imo.x Hugs H

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wantingtoplay001   Woman 50yrs

blocking

yes I put things on my profile for a reason , eg regarding the age of guys I want to meet , I am driven nuts by young guys who cant take no for a answer and dont  read the profile  , then they get rude and offensive  , so they get blocked , all I ask is to read the information on the profile
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ApolloThirteen   Woman 42yrs

Does it really matter?

Why care who blocks you?  I blocks guys profiles who come up in a search if they have a penis photo! I don't want them coming up in a search in future and I don't want to come up in theirs. It's simply a choice.
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mooka   Man 54yrs

Confused?

Quoting 'Nath1976'

And it's not just the girls that do the blocking.

 

 

I will block people in the chat if they are being rude or obnoxious to other people,

If they are overly insistent in their whispers after being warned not to be,

If they persistently try to direct some cam action (especially mine or my wife's),

 

 

The odd, "could you please lower/raise, move your cam" politely framed request is fine.

 

Also, some women are there to chat and play with other women and dont want guys dropping in on that.

 

 

Nat;)


Nat, while I can appreciate your sentiments, is blocking someone who is rude to someone else really that effective?  For a start they aren't interacting with you by the sounds of it, so they won't even notice you blocked them.  All that happens is you miss out on what they say.  I have found it better to start to belittle the idiots in chat, yes they may block me then, but that is their choice.  Blocking someone by proxy just doesn't work, 99% of the guys couldn't care if another guy blocked them.

 

Mooka

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inspirit   Woman 49yrs

To Block or Not to Block

Meh....i don't see the point in blocking unless of course your ex is on here or some douche bag who you know is a creep. I've been here for over a year now and have 4 people blocked all with good reason.

lol Mooka being smarter than the idiots in chat is sooooo much more fun hehehehe.


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jensman1903   Man 49yrs

What's the big deal?

Shit, I'm blocked by half the forum readers already.

Wanna make book on how long it takes me to alienate the other half?

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feloniusfossil

Bahahahaha

Jensman....your a character!



Cheers Felonius

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timandjane

Block

We sometimes block people we have had contact with and after seeing there PG and making the decision they are not what we are looking for. We only do it so lets say in 8 weeks time if we come in contact again we don't have to go through the process of messaging and exchanging PG's for the some outcome. Its hard to keep track of every person you have had contact with.

We also use it to block anyone being rude.

Tim

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curiousgirl_MR

quoting Mooka...

"Blocking someone by proxy just doesn't work, 99% of the guys couldn't care if another guy blocked them."

 

 

 

Maybe not when it's me on my single profile but they sure take notice when it's the couple profile and the wife is on chatting with cam on ;)

 

 

Nat ;)

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GreyEyesSydney

Vile profile

I had one profile that kept coming up in my stream and it was a vile profile. He hadn't even contacted me but I blocked him on the off chance it might ever cross his mind.

I don't web cam so can't comment on that.

I have no hesitation to block someone if they send me messages or flirts repeatedly, particularly after being politely told that I'm not interested.
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irish44you

ahem!



   

Quoting 'timandjane'
    We sometimes block people we have had contact with and after seeing there PG and making the decision they are not what we are looking for. We only do it so lets say in 8 weeks time if we come in contact again we don't have to go through the process of messaging and exchanging PG's for the some outcome. Its hard to keep track of every person you have had contact with.

We also use it to block anyone being rude.

Tim

   
on a completely different note that is a very nice bum...



Back to topic(coughs)
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Dieselnoi   Man 27yrs

I know your pain

I do agree that it's frustrating to be blocked for no reason. I have been blocked because I visited a profile or watch a webcam, but to really think about it it's their rights.

 

As hard as it is to take, we just have to be mature, respect their actions and deal with it.

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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 50yrs Woman 52yrs

lol

we only block those who we really dont like, or who continually harass us,  otherwise people are free to see what pics we have posted...and what our profile says.
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MsElle40   Woman 41yrs

Curious

Is there a way of seeing who has blocked you?
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wannabyummymummy   Woman 36yrs

i have a few criteria

personally i have a few reasons for blocking a person, i don't troll through and search for them though (who has the time?) so i wouldn't be blocking someone who hasn't contacted me in some way. the reasons i would block someone:

1) they have sent repeated flirts/messages after i have said no thanks
2) they seem to view my profile like 20 times a day but never actually contact me ( I have never understood this)
3) being pushy in the chat room and again, not taking no for an answer
4) rude/obnoxious messages

other than that live and let live for me
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Tasty2kiss   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 37yrs

Blocked up!

I personally dont block people.
Never had the reason to. I visit the chat room a far bit and think if Im putting myself out there I should be able to deal with all kinds. In real life when Im out and socialising  I cant block people who I think are tossers so I dont do it here.
In saying that tho if I did recieve messages that were offensive or someone wasnt taking no as a answer I would block.
The block button does serve its purpose on this site but I dont think it should be used because you cant bare someone else's views or you dont like them.

T x
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PrudishNympho

Why do you care?

It's the person's choice if they want you to watch them.

I block people if they contact me repeatedly, view my profile about 20x a day, are overly persistent in chat, are overly enthusiastic/obsessive with other members, give me a bad vibe, are not my cup of tea, etc.  Basically, for whatever reason, I want nothing to do with them.  I tend not to block couples as my "thanks, but no thanks" messages are taken rather gracefully and I won't hear from them again. 
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wowwow11   Man 40yrs

Mate

Who gives a toss if you get Blocked....

 

Cyber world not the real world  better off without them .. turn of the PC go outside and talk to a real person...

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189venu   Couple Man 48yrs Woman 42yrs

Blocking people

My partner and I have been blocked by eswing and don't know Y , if we have done anything wrong a small note would have been nice . We would only block if it's on our profile like no singles or if someone is to persistant otherwise all welcome   So everyone enjoy life we are only here once

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