I agree with you totally...almost all of the Topics on here end up with man bashing! I don't get why women whinge about getting messages "Let's fuck" when they show their tits or are bent over in nothing but a g string! I am sure if you went out like that you wouldn't exactly have men asking you out to dinner! I think the guys on here need to be given a break considering that not many messages are replied to! I know of guys who used to send out great messages and in the end got sick of no reply they then sent short messages! If women are not on here for sex...then don't have sexy pics up...don't fill out your sexual desires...don't even fill in your tit size or whether you have safe sex or not! There are "Ask Me" options out there! As I said before...alot of women are on here as it is the ONLY place that a guy would look at them sideways! It's an Ego trip!
I was on another dating site a couple of years ago and arramged to meet a woman for dinner and a show.
Fine nothing expected but a hope for a good night out.
During early conversation she mentioned that she was doing a masters in wait for it..psychology.
I have no problem with intelligent women and I work in female dominated workplace and am always welcomed on a ward.
The entire dinner was taken up with how I felt and why did I do what I do for a living.
WTF? it even continued into the band part of the evening I was enjoyign the music and the singer invited auduience singing along.
I was boogying and singing to the band and this psychology master? was telling me she was embarassed with my singing and obvious delight in music.
Next day I recieved an email asking if I had a good time.
When I replied honestly she was deeply offended that I wasn't impressed with her obvious intelligence and wit.
Well you live and learn...
You sure you weren't research material.
There's just no pleasing some people, is there?
Cassandra, there's nothing arrogant in using your own judgement. Many members complain about all the cock picks. Still, if the men in question had no luck at all, they would probably change them. I guess there is a niche that they ill and it's no fault of yours if you're not part of it. Whether you call it judgement, opinion, conclusion, assessment or point of view, it's all the same thing and it's how we arrive at our decisions on a daily basis. There's no arrogance in it.
It is very easy to get an inflated sense of self when your a woman on a internet date site.
We all like to create a good image of ourselves, yes a sexy one at at that.
Some women like to display themselves on the internet with pictures or web cam as it turns them on, and it may be as far as they can go to the naughty side of the street.
Others in reality will not be approached by men, they may not fit the stereotypical body that most men or women like. Because of this they can be that hot thing, with men fawning over them, without leaving the lounge room.
After a while a sense of power creeps in, and the illusion of self perception as opposed to reality soon starts to domintate behavious. Internet interaction can pump up a deflated self esteem.
The trick is to translate those feelings into reality. To actually meet men and to get to listen to their side of the story. Any fool can be an internet warrior regardless of gender.
I sometimes roll my eyes if the same guy sends me messages over and over when I have clearly said no thank you. But I try not be nasty though at times it can frustrate me no end.
We as women take the piss out of men and they take the piss out of us. After all we speak different languages and really I do not think women are clear enough at times and men do not read subtle signals.
Take your thoughts off-line into the world of sight, sound touch feel, and drink of the essence of the sexual sensual male. Not all men are the same, nor all women and a mirror helps to get a picture of your reality. But its also fun to have heated debate on the gender issues , so long as it does not get nasty.
Men I luuuuvvvvvvvvvv em.
Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes.There is just too much fraternizing with the enemy...Henry Kissinger
x Hugs H
You sure you weren't research material.
Well the way I had to answer all these questions I may have been.
I didn't see her taking notes tho'.
KEEP IT SIMPLE STOOPID. hehe
what an amazing mantra to follow. whoever penned that must be a clever dick. haha
it makes no Diff.... I don’t mind if I get told to Fuck Off or Ride me till I squirt. Fact is it’s a web site/ site it’s a sex site and for those that don’t want to call it a sex site ...let’s call it a romance catalogue
But for me that is all it is it’s not the real world and people treat each other much nicer in person and a lot of the NASTY cunts on here wouldn’t say half the crap they do to someone’s face. We all know that they know that so as long as you realize this is a internet site any comment made to you against you mean Jack Shizer .
Basically most men don’t care what is said to them if they’re getting some action Just my opinion
why not tell us how you really feel?
My cunt smells like crushed rose petals, nothing nasty at all
quoting kumi again ? haha
btw, you cant derr a derrerer.