im bisexual ,,,,,,,guy ,,,,,,also a transexual ,,,just starting out on my journey ,,,,,,,,,,,,ive always advertised my bisexuality proudly ,,,,,,,,,,,,,although i have noticed it can be a hinderance when it comes to meeting ladies on here ,,,,,,,,i get hit on by heaps of guys ,,,,,,if there profile says straight ,,,,,,,,,,i simply move on ,,,,,,,,,xxxxxxxxcatherine ,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Oh and Catherine you do look very sexy too

LOL It really is a two stage process isnt it....... try hopefully as a single male..... discover you are but one of many many single males then write again to reveal you are secretly bi.... so are we interested now......

 

 

 

Shame the females arent speakng up.... seems there are more females that like seeing guys together than there are attached males willing to let em....

Yes it’s a shame the girls don’t want to let us know how they feel but its early days yet towwithnolimits...

I have always known that I was bisexual and yes like Catherine: I am proud of being bisexual...

When chatting to a young lady last night she did say that in a 3some with mfm some guys like to play more with the guy and not the female this I find a little bit disturbing, as having a 3some mfm the female should be the centre of attention and all play should be around her, if and when the female has had enough then the guys can do what they like....

When it comes to my wife she is the rose between the thorns and we play with her and yes the guys can play with one another but 80% of play should be to her...

Yes my wife luv’s watching me sucking on a guy and a guy sucking on me...

Don’t get me wrong I luv playing with a bi-guy, sucking, fucking and whatever else but come on guys the female must get her share too.....

MMM...twice the fun for half the hassle why wouldn't you be Bisexual hahahahaha In a Threesome situation ...whatever turns you on go with the flow you can always give the lady some attention while the little mans getting ready to dance again ....

Personally I don't go for bi guys.  I tend to think theyll may be more effeminate, or less particular or have engaged in higher risk sex or a combination of the above.  I appreciate this may all be completely incorrect of any particular individual but that's my honest answer.  As with any other woman on this site, I get a lot of interest so tend to apply general rules (like no marrieds, no small guys, no-one with a lazy profile, no one lots older or younger etc) to decide who to have contact with.  It might result in an opportunity missed but you have to narrow the options down one way or another.

I'm bisexual male and I dont play in high risk sex... Personly WAnewbie I think females play more in high risk sex as they are found to go to swinger clubs more than single guys do and you dont see many guys getting gang banged...

I know quite a few girls on here that are straight and have a new guy every weekend (talk about high risk)....

 

One thing you may not know is 90% of straight guys on here are bisexual and wont put it on their profile because they want to fuck girl who dont like bi-guys.. so next time you are playing with a guy you may not know what he's been up too, and yes to get you into bed they will lie, I know as I have chated with quite a few that do it...

 

My personal way of thinking:  Is honesty is the only way not whether you are bi or str8..........

 

But WAnewbie thank you for being honest I appreciate that.... 

Good on you for expressing your opinion. I quite agree with you there. But i have my own reason why i dont like bi-guys. Not that I hate them, i respect them, but i just find them... without offending anyone.. ah forget it... you get the drift.

The_Seeker you remind me of my brother: dam I like it.......

 

My brother is a homoghobic and say he will never be friends with gay guys (what a laugh)..

What he does not know (which I do ) is he has 3 male friends which are gay and 1 bisexual....

 

I have a lot of straight friends which only a few know I am bisexual and there the one I trust to tell....

Your circle of friends as you probably dont know there's bi-guys in that say they are straight .....

A lot of bisexual guys will not tell straight guys they are bi......

 

I could never be bothered sending a flirt to a straight guy as it would be a wast of my good time............

All I ask was: Why some females dont like bi-guys, which WAnewbie gave her reason......

The other question was to guys that have straight on their profiles but they are bi (why)

 

I know now the guys with straight on their profile (but are bi) will not come on here and say why, because they dont want people like you to know they are bisexual.... I now understand the answer to my own question......

 

Thank you The_seeker and WAnewbie but you all have a good day...... Just be nice to people bi, homosexual or straight...

 

 

 

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My question was answered and no I was not refering to u as homoghobic, I was talking about my brother and yes you do remind me of him..........

 

The point I was making was to the females and guys who are straight but then tell me they are bi.. so if it was takin the wrong way get over it it only a thread..........

 

But I am happy as I found out the answer to my question......

 

I now know why bisexual guy put straight on their profiles who can blam them...........

Gtbi bi I suspect you're right about the likelihood of some bisexual or experimental men being a bit selective about the way they describe themselves in their profiles so as not to deter women who might otherwise be interested.  It goes on all the time in one form or another - attached men describe themselves as single, 40 something's as 30 something's, women say they're looking for sex when they're looking for love (or just an on line ego stroke) etc etc.  I also agree that it would be very foolish to risk your health based on someone's own description of their activities. I'm not entirely sure I agree with your comment that 90% of the straight men here are bisexual and I wonder what you base that on?  I have several gay male friends from very different walks of life and one thing that they all have in common is a tendency to harbour frequent suspicions about the sexuality of straight men.  I think this is partly based on the fact that men who do have those sorts of leanings may gravitate towards gay men, partly based on projection of their own desires, and a tiny bit based on wishful thinking (my gay mates do seem to fall for straight acting men). As for your comment about being nice to people regardless of orientation, I've got to underline what the seeker said as I was expressing a sexual preference nothing more.

I choose to put the fact that I am a genuine bi guy on my profile as I want to be who I want to be. Id love to meet a couple where they guy is bi as it allows for much more fun in my opinion. Im more than happy to meet for mm, mmf and even had a few mmmff (all safe btw). I also love to put on a show with another guy for ladies who have always wanted to watch. As ive said in my profile, I dont want to stop peoples fun by telling them what they can or cant do. Im just hoping to be part of it.

That’s easy one to answer WAnewbie: we’ve been payed member on here for 1 year now and a member of another site like this which we have been a payed member for 2 years.....

We get at least 10 to 16 guys a week ether wanting to meet or just chat, out of 10::/ 9 will be straight on their profile, when I sent back and say to read out profile again because we are only looking for a bi-guy or couple with a bi-male, they always reply with the same answer: I am bisexual but don’t want it on my profile for all to see..... The reason they give manly is that a lot of females will not look at them if they have bisexual on their profile...... Over the last 3 months we have met with 4 guys who all have single and straight on their profile but I’ll tell you now they are bisexual....

We are meeting another so call straight guy this weekend who say he is bisexual....

We don’t have sex with them all as we are looking for friendship and have found a lot of guy are just looking for sex nothing else, we have found 80% of meetings are a waste of time, but one day we’ll meet the right guy or couple...

Our of your answer WAnewbie you did say: Personally I don't go for bi guys. I tend to think they’ll may be more effeminate or less particular or have engaged in higher risk sex or a combination of the above.

To me that say all bisexual people are high risk!!!!!!!!!!!

We spent 3 years with one couple and no one else, and then they went to Perth...

Then we had a bisexual guy for the next 4 years without anyone else but sadly he found a girl friend and she thinks he is straight, I do not find my live as a bisexual male as a high risk, I probably have a lower risk than you.....

All in all I could have handle my reply a bit better to both you and The_Seeker as he did agree with you but I just did not like being put in a high risk basket when we are more interested in long-term friendship, sex is just something that if it happen then it happens.... I do only go on the messages and flirts we get and also spent a lot of time in chat rooms which I don’t go into anymore, rather chat in privet these days....

As for my main question I do understand why bisexual guys put straight on their profiles.......

Me I rather be honist and put I'm bisexual...........................................................................

 

If 9/10 bi guys who contact you describe themselves as straight in their profile, it might suggest that 90% of bi guys here describe themselves as straight but it in no way suggests that 90% of straight guys here are bi - big difference. Additionally you omitted a very important qualification when you quoted me, namely my acknowledgement that my feelings might be 'completely incorrect' regarding any particular individual.  You asked a question about why women react a certain way and I wanted to give you an honest answer in spite of the fact that I knew that my reaction was not based on logic - sexual impulses rarely are.

newbie suck it up princesses Let it go, you'll give yourself a heart attack, you knew what I meant and one can only go on who contact them on RHP site.........

I can always make an assumption and say young people are like a dog with a bone, they won’t let it go.... Get over it  .............................

Have a nice day and hope you find someone sexy to play with you need it

No-one wins in a cripple fight.

Its not a fight honey it just a debate of points of view, and got say you'll held your ground pretty good.........

 

Ok weekend have to start a new debate

Question 1: For the females: Is this true that females don't like bisexual guys???

No one can generalise that. I guess you are asking  *If you are a female do you, or don't you, like bisexual guys?* Like them? Depends what they are like, no difference to any other person - if we click, we click. If you mean sexually, then bisexual guys are not something that I seek to float my boat.

My reasons are pretty much what Wanewbie said.
However, gtbi_mm if you are saying that 90% of them are liars then that's given me another reason. ;p  Although, something that tells me that says more about their personality and integrity rather than their sexual preferences. (just like married guys lying and saying they are single etc etc). I mean, how does it make you feel when a guy who states he is 'straight' on his profile contacts you telling you that he lied, he really is bi? Does it put you off at all? Like you said, you don't just look for sex, you look for more.

As far as high risk categories, you may want to read what WAnewbie said again. She didn't say you were a high risk (but you didn't ask about you, you asked about whether females liked bi guys and asked for honesty). The fact is, guys with guys is a known higher risk category (so is anal sex with females, using no protection, iv drug users). High risk means simply that. It's not a given, it's not a judgement, it's statistical based and up to the individual to recognise and take precautions. It's also the main reason people use condoms (apart from pregnancy). Statistically condoms greatly reduce, but not completely eliminate, the risks.

ALL of us are at risk, regardless of which way we swing. Some are statistically more at risk than others. Yes it sucks, yes it's unfair. It's also the way it is.

Maybe don't ask for people's honest opinions if you are going to jump down their throat for giving such. Not one person here has been anything but open in their response to you (unlike the 90% of bi guys that contact you). Or do your research before you retort with a childish response, otherwise don't be surprised when no one is honest anymore...

BTW, for what it's worth. I have far more respect for people who are honest and it's those I choose as friends, regardless of sexual orientation.

Without any doubt there are women who reject men on the basis of their sexual identification alone. And guys, to some extent, choose a sexual identity that suits their self image, more often in conflict with their innate sexual desires, and they deny this side of themselves verehemently to preserve that self image. Self image is very important. Same for women. Some women can't handle the idea that their man might indulge in mm sex .... Like he's some other dudes bitch... lol. Being with such a man conflicts with her self image... Anyway... Recently I conducted a little experiment. I found a men's toilet block with a glory hole large between cubicles 75mm diameter located in a busy area on one of our busiest beaches. Three out of every five guys took the opportunity to get a blow job. Now, if one in 10 men identify as gay, how is it possible that 6 out of ten men will happily accept a blow job off another dude if discretion is assured? Needless to say, I have more research to conduct in this location. But this confirms my thoughts that you can have a sexual preference for women, thus identify as straight, and still get your jollies off occasionally by getting an anonymous blow job off another dude. Sisters are so possessive of sex, it's redo lupus. Brothers are doing it for themselves! Hugs Stalky