I was wondering the same thing Lil bit ... really need to start calling this the classifieds...
Advertising I think.
Most women loathe the term "cougar" so I strongly suggest you never repeat it to her.....never refer to her as "mature" or "older"....remember this fact...she is a woman with experience...but no matter how good she looks, she is very aware of her biological years and doesnt need it reinforced to her
Also please keep in mind (the presuming bit) that not all women older than you are "cougars" - many arent (including myself) , most "cougars" who advertise on here or if your out clubbing/ pubbing will make it very clear that if she wants you (Thanks Hesione)....she will pursue you....its an essential part of the game
And the assuming bit
Always assume that you are nothing more than a fuck puppet for the nite, nothing less, but certainly nothing more....
Good luck with your search :)
I was taking the piss... but in no way was I telling the OP to go and get a life outside of here, I think its great having so many young men into older women, all of my lovers have been younger than me, and its been wonderful. It makes alot of sense really with us just coming into our peak sexually, and the young guys also, makes for explosive and explorative sex. Yes, some of the younger men can be a bit cocky ( as can some of the older ones too) Bring on the lovely young men who are just happy to go with the flo and experience all that RHP offers.
Can I just add a sort of side topic on here? I am struggling lately with 'how young is too young?' Receive alot of mail from very young men, my initial thoughts are hubba hubba, but then I get the moral thing going and... I'd really appreciate your thoughts on this... anyone.
The question was raised (well I think it was) on the rise of the Cougar, and I think the answer is pretty damn self-evident - IT IS BECAUSE THEY CAN! It practise isn't looked down by society, in fact they are often the envy of their female friends Whilst most will look at a mature woman in a pub or club with a harem of young studs clammering for her attention and secrety wish either they were her (if they are female) or wish they were as carefree and as lucky as the harem (if they are male), the same can't be said for the reverse. I believe society still sniggers when they see a male with someone who is young enough to be his offspring, even I do it, it looks bloody ridiculous.
I must admit what makes me laugh is when Cougarism goes wrong! When a mature lady not only tries to compete with the women half her age but dress and act like them as well. It just isn't a good look, you are sought after because of your age and experience (and often the willingness to have SNA sex on the first night), not for wearing the latest look from Miley Cyrus lol Of course the same goes for the men, hoodies for anyone over 40 should be a no no lmao
In Vic I think the legal age is 16 as long as your not a carer or teacher.
I believe it's also a valid defence if you believed that they were of legal age,
but who would want to be in court to test it.
So legally I guess thats as far you can go. Not that, that stop's some women.
I think it was last week that I read in the paper about a female teacher who was convicted
of having a sexual relationship with a 15 yo male student, and have heard of a few cases with
13 year old's.
As far as morality goes, I can't see anything particularly immoral about having sexual relations with
someone within the confines of the statutes.
That won't stop individuals from condemming you though, because you don't fit into their
vision of what's right or not.
If you want to, and can deal with the possibility of the fallout, then go for it.
Though seeing as you want to sail close to the mark, I would be wanting proof of age.
Good luck and have fun!