Don't try too much too soon. Start with maybe a small vibe or butt plug and when you feel ok with that get something the next size up. Don't rush, it takes time to stretch things. You will know when it's time to move on to the next one. Forget the fancy silicon lubes and stick with the water based ones.
As a dominatrix I have trained a few guys to take a hard arse fucking and found the above method the best way.
As a final tip, I have found that putting a condom on your toys means less mess.
Good Luck
Hey Live dream.
I have had a few threesomes with DP involved. Probably the best thing is to practice with a small dildo or vib first.
Get use to the feeling. When you have two guys maybe start with the smaller guy first.
Ask the guy to go real slow and easy, be gentle until you are comfortable with it
Shaun
You could try using a butt plug and work up from a smaller to larger size, so your ass is used to accepting things. Use lots of lube. Might take a little while for your body to get used to it (ie practise) but i'm sure the results will be well worth it.
A lot of horniness, naughtiness, no pressure and a bit of alcohol seems to be the best lube for this mrs
I had a similar issue, hubby tried to run off with my bottom cherry and actually hurt himself much more than me,
Like breaking into a bank vault apparently :)
He's a thick boy to be fair, so as a wise woman once said to me "thick is great for pussy, average is great for arse"
xx
Mrs S
I really hope you follow thru with all the idea's given here.(good work people)
I never tryed it untill last year and OMG I could kick myself for missing out. The orgasims that anal gives me personally make stars appear!!
It really truely is about being relaxed and trusting that person.
best of luck on your training experience, the rewards will blow your mind
Ok so the whole anal debate is allegedly oh so sexy...bla bla
freekin bla...
I'll tell you what isnt so sexy...stretching of the sphincter to the
point where you have no control over your bowel motions...
The sphincter lining externalises....haemorrhoids...bleeding from
the anus....seen it all during my time in the A & E...
Hope you have medical insurance...
There are devices you can buy which are a dildo that has a flap on it. you insert into offending hole, and squeeze the end with your hand and the flap moves away from the dildo. Kinda like those old style hair curling irons, but this one won't cauterise your sphincter. Also inflatable ones work too but don't overfill it or POP!
Random
These devices don't work very well on your mouth. Basically you can bust yer jaw then every time you give head it goes *click* *click* *click*