I was sitting down doing our invoicing and started thinking about a party we have coming up in a week or so with two very special friends and all the different scenarios that could play out for what seemed like the hundredth time in the last hour.
I began to wonder if I was addicted to sex or at least the thought of it!!!,One of my many character flaws when i see something or someone i like i grab on with two hands and dont let go!.
I wondered if anyone else has this problem and how do you get you mind back on the so called real world, Which seems to be faker every day relationships,friendships,religion,politics all based on lies.
noway !! i think about sex almost all day ... i know how u feel though .. ive had some prudish religious types tell me im a sex addict but then i go to work and talk the blokes there.. my god , if im a sex addict then those blokes need to be locked up lol .even gys that are so well behaved in front of there wives , when there alone with me all they talk about sex lol
gys will always think about sex its just how we are... i say f@#* it and f@#* them.. sex is awsome we should celebrate it and enjoy it as much as possible...if only there was a religion based on celebrating sex rather than repressing it...
Yes we could start a sex addicts anonymous group imagine the after sesion chats mmm dont see how that could help haha!
2 girls and 4 guys since Saturday. Thats just a regular week isnt it.
You beat me to the chase. Quite right Otori, the definition of an addiction is that it's out of balance and other things suffer as a result.
A pre-occupation with something that most people in society don't pay as much attention to does not necessarily make one an addict. For example, a lot of people enjoy watching sport on TV. My parents, bless their souls, can watch two games of AFL back to back and then switch to North American sport/the Olympics/whatever else is on. It drives me UP THE WALL. I have trouble sitting through a single "quarter" in AFL. But that doesn't necessarily make them sport addicts. If they started skipping work to watch sport, another story. If they laid in bed at night unable to sleep for thinking of it, problem. If their interpersonal relationships suffered, if they spent more money than they could comfortably afford, if they wanted to stop or cut down but couldn't, etc etc, all hallmarks of addiction.
Now some people are addicted to sex and do have honest-to-goodness sincere recovery groups, forums, therapists and the like. I feel sorry for people who have such a destructive addiction, just as I'd feel sorry for someone addicted to alcohol, gambling, shopping or illicit drugs. They do exist and I think making a tongue-in-cheek forum topic about being "addicted" is disrespectful to what is actually a life-destroying problem for some people. I suppose it would be the equivalent of pulling out your credit card in Myer and saying to everyone around,
"So I'm addicted to Italian shoes! Whatever, am I right? Who's with me?"
or saying to your parole officer:
"So I have a nostrilfull of snow? Who made YOU God?"
If you really are addicted to sex, for goodness sake, get some help.
If you're not, for goodness sake, stop having a laugh at the expense of people who are, please.
Hey i think you might be taking things a bit too serious this post was ment to be a dig at my own personal short comings, Shit i shouldnt say that next you will be saying im insulting short people.
I realise there are people out there with this real condition but if we had to go through a list of people not to insult before listing a post up there wouldnt be many on here and how boring would they be .
Maybee you should look elsewhere for an argument you wont get one from me im here to escape the real word and have fun and a bit of a laugh, if there is any real addicts on here im sure they might get some help from this topic one way or another.
Yeah okay, I'll lighten up and am generally never looking for an argument on the forums but do blunder my way into them on occasion.
An intelligent response and a very good point that there are always groups of somehow marginalised, somewhere, who might be offended by anything fun or funny. *shrug* I'll save my crusader cape for when people actually have malice behind what they say.
Have fun, ya filthy addicts.
Thanks as you mentioned there was no malice intended im not here to insult or hurt peoples feelings very much the opposite!!
Now back on topic to my real addiction friday is nearly here look out babe im coming well not literally i wish