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Feb 10, 2012
tuscanred   Woman 59yrs

How would you feel if you saw your mum, or sister on rhp?

Or your brother etc.

Or someone you knew off-line would it alter how you thought about them?


I had a guy the other day tell me that a woman who used to come into his shop, said she thought she would introduce him to her daughter, but then she recognised him of RHP.


One of my daughters was leafing through a book of my models ,yes I do have a book with permission to show as promotion. No pink bits showing.


She said god mum he is hot I would love to meet him. I knew he was into older women and the fact is she would freak if she even knew I was on RPH or even getting any, I said he has moved back to London.


So would you feel differently if you saw your mum was after sex on a site like this? Even more to the point have you ever seen any of your mates mums on this site and thought you would go there?

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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

lol

besides the fact that our parents are too old to really indulge..... if this were the 70's, they'd be here...... but.. its not..they had to do it all the 'old fashioned' pre-internet way.... we were raised in a fairly open household...parents were nudists, and although they never stated it.... played a little as well.....its no 'big deal' after all...they are adults also..and products of the 'swinging 60's' and 'free love' generations......lol i can remember going to the beach with a group of their friends.....and seeing all of  them disrobe and frolic in the surf lol......

 

we have family members with profiles here...and at other sites.... we've seen each others profiles...and pics...and its not even a small issue...again....we are all adults........we dont compare notes, or share playmates (that we know of ) so its all good.....but must confess that seeing your adult siblings naked...on a sex site profile....is a bit 'confronting'........but once we were past the shock..lol...it was a bit of an embarassing giggle for us all....

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couplesint  

Couple Man 60yrs Woman 47yrs

How old is too old

How old is too old....I say all ages indulge ... We have had a couple come here that left very quickly when they saw her father playing pool..lol and I can tell u he wasn't old..lol People see other family members and or close friends or work mates here a lot, and their attitude is " well they are here too" and good for them.
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ssssteve2011  

Man 46yrs

Secret Squirrells

I guess we all think of ourselves on the site as sexually liberated and free thinkers.

But in reality most of us keep the details and the fact that we are on the site away from our "real" lives.

Within the RHP community we all chat and talk in a relaxed manner about sex, but we all know that in the other world it is too much for most people, and societies norms prevail. So we all tend to be a little furtive and keep it separate.

My kids would curl up and die if they thought i was on here, but they would see no issue with their friends being on here. I guess what's good for the goose isn't always good for the gander.

Steve :)


 
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jamesnp   Man 23yrs

Oohhh

To be really brutally frank, I would love to see my sister and/or mother on rhp or a dating site. The reason I say so is because my mother is a very bitter woman who has hated men ever since my old man left her 18 years ago. Instead of accepting she treated everyone like one of her kindergarten students and that people hate it, she's continued to ignore that fault and remain angry. My sister on the other hand is a rather devout Christian who has never had a drink, smoke, gamble, kiss, etc. It is a choice she has made but there really are a lot of wonderful things she is missing out on because of it. So, the point of this is, I would be very pleased to see either of them on here, trying something new and enjoying some of the delights of being human. It's a damn shame it'll never happen though...
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mikeandshel  

Couple Man 49yrs Woman 51yrs

lol

too old...as in no longer physically able....for a variety of reasons.....
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jennylee1903   Woman 45yrs

I'm no hypocrite.

As long as the friend/relative in question is of age and not doing it behind a partners back, I'm good with it. More power to them.
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Stalky

I'd be a little shocked but I'm sure I'll get over it.

Putting myself in my parent's shoes, I can well imagine myself on here at the age of ninety. The good news every day is I'll probably not remember a thing about who it was I had been bonking the day before.... so I'd be like a little kid in a candy store, and by reason of ED drugs, nothing would be safe. It'll all be a new experience! Hide the fresh fruits. :p Hugs Stalky
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Vintagetatu   Woman 35yrs

Depends...

Does RHP do a family discount? *calls the relatives*
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Krissy_G   Woman 43yrs

Stalky Ill give you 5

Get some hot pics up. Like when your 70 you can show all the potentials.

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couplesint  

Couple Man 60yrs Woman 47yrs

Never too old even if can't perform anymore

Glad you cleared that up mike but there are still people that are on here that can't perform for various medical reasons, but they still enjoy the lifestyle. Good for them ! I say Leesa xx
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InAdditionTo  

Couple Man 37yrs Woman 36yrs

I'd give her a big hug

If I saw my Mum (and Dad...they're still married after 50 years) on this site...firstly, I'd ask why they haven't popped in for a cuppa (they live on the other side of the planet) and then I'd give my Mum a giant hug and say "finally Mum, welcome the world of sexual pleasure....it's been a long time coming".

Having said that, the likelihood of my Mum ever accessing a site like this is somewhere in the zero range (though I did find a stack on home porn polaroids when I was playing 'burglars' as a pre-teen so who knows!).


Mrs Addy
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Shyboy75   Man 36yrs

Great question

I have bumped into people I recognise for from RHP at work and haven't give it a second though.  As for a sibling well I would give them a call and see if they had got lucky.  I don't believe in double standards ... so if it good enough for me then it has to be ok for them

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ChasingMidnight

...it could happen.

*picks up the ringing phone*

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"Hey, sis...what's up.  You're on what site...no way, what's your nickname?"

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"Ohhhhh shit shit shit...I'm on there too!  I am soooo sorry about that note I sent to you...it was a template and well, I didn't have any idea that was you under the umbrella and you know I am too much of gentleman to even suggest smearing something all over your lips besides that deep red lipstick."

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"Thanks...hey do me a favour, don't tell Mum?  Yeah, me either...I think we are both going to have to fight like hell to stay in the will anyway.  Thanks, sis...you're aces.  See you Sunday for the roast at mum's place". 

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  ....there are just some things they don't really need to know.

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Vagabonde   Woman 35yrs

Besides the fact that

I'd really rather not see some of my rellies nekkid, who cares?!? My son knows. He's the only one whose opinion matters. *shrug*
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Ramakin   Man 41yrs

you mean my parents had sex!

I would like to think that I would be more freaked out if I got a serious flirt or a "lets meet up" email from one of them but even then I wouldn't disown them and then I'd probably just laugh about it. I'm here so why should they be!

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inspirit   Woman 48yrs

Meh..

I really wouldn't care. Good on them for being on a sight that is full of liberated people. l reallly don't understand peoples mentality when it comes to sexual pleasure. Had a debate about this the other week with a BF. In the end i let it go as she will never understand. She is of the opinion you cant have sex with anyone if you don't love them.  That's what it the question is really all about isn't it?

My sons know im on here and they just shrug. It's no big deal to them as they know I am not only their mum, i am also a smart woman who is accountable to her choices she makes in life. They don't judge me for beng on here.

tuscan why wouldnt you tell your daughter your on a dating web site. You may be suprised with her response. It is a dating website right just like all the others except we have no hang ups on sex!




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MrandMrsErotic   Couple Man 47yrs Woman 47yrs

Mum's the word

It's not exactly a crime to be on here. I guess if I gave a mum flack for being here, or anyone else reacted to knowledge of this type, it's the individual's business where they frequent and rude to gossip or denigrate. Mums gotta have a life too.
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Vintagetatu   Woman 35yrs

*cough*

Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'
  See you Sunday for the roast at mum's place".

love a good Sunday roasting...


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ChasingMidnight

...with all the trimmings.

So do I...

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Quoting 'Vintagetatu'
love a good Sunday roasting...

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...and quite happy that we were both adopted by Mum late in life. 

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Remember the secret password to get in to Mum's Place is..."hibachi".  Shhh don't tell.

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tuscanred   Woman 59yrs

An answer to that one

 

Tuscan why wouldn’t you tell your daughter your on a dating web site. You may be surprised with her response. It is a dating website right just like all the others except we have no hang ups on sex!

Its a sex web site, not a date web site. To me other sites like rsvp or find the knight in shiny armour. com are date sites. Though honestly when I read what women are looking for here, no wonder men get so confused.

 

Oh no surprises there I know exactly how my girls would react, the eldest in particular.

My daughters are very strong minded women. When I got divorced I did not date ever, for a long time till they had grown up and left home. Reason is they had a dad, and I did not trust a guy to be around my girls( I have my reasons)

 

my sex life does not have to be anybody’s business, at all. Not theirs nor even many of my friends. I have one friend who knows I am on here, and I put her on to this site.

 

The jobs I have done over the years , especially in welfare work may impact my privacy issues. Believe me the fact your on a sex site is great stuff that others can use against you.

Your boss, those snickering females who think all sex should be with the boyfriend and with the lights out. I once told a friend I had sex with two guys, I mean this was a woman who fucked the whole town but one at a time

 

She said , MY god I thought you were better than that. We have been friends for over twenty years and I love her to bits but I know now that its not something to share unless you want to loose your straight friends. I happen to like my straight friends.

 

People have labels and I have no intention of letting anyone stick one on me.

My girls do not need to know at all. To them I am just mum , my sex life is not up for discussion and I do not pry into theirs. Though we talked a lot about it as they were growing up, so they would not be seduced by the crap up there on the movie. Sex is not all roses and wine and I love you baby, they need to know that.

 

Two other friends years ago, were open about being an a sex site,and meet men all the time and even bought them home. The result was terrible in both cases, the boy who grew into a man would call his mother a slut all the time. The girl got sexually molested more than once by the boyfriends. I even reported it to the police but nothing came of it.

Your children well you know what’s best for them, I can only make those kind of choices based on how well I think I know my girls. So its a non disclosure policy for my sex life.

 

I am so aware how the internet is used against people, its the first port of call for any private investigator.

We all judge one way or another other peoples sex life, its human nature

If they do not know then they cannot judge.



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