We've read comments from couples here and elsewhere who now play separately due to the rarity of finding couples where everyone clicks. With a few notches under our belts we can see why some feel this way. 1/3 of our encounters have been awesome, 1/3 could have been trainwrecks if they'd been handled differently and the remaining 1/3 were interesting but nothing to write home about. We entered the scene expecting awesome. We're choosey, respectful and we do what we can to make our playmates feel sexy, desired and comfortable. As our expectations drop we'll probably be able to simply enjoy ourselves a little more and experience will help us find the right playmates. It seems there's the probability that 1 of the 4 doesn't feel it or is bringing their issues into the bedroom. We're coming to realize that this is simply a bit of raunchy slap and tickle and that we might well stumble across couples where we all feel that electricity but that's a bonus not our norm. Maybe it is a reflection on the great sex we have together or maybe it's normal. You tell us... How would you breakdown the chemistry ratios between earthmoving, nice and meh?